Confessions of a sex addict
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What is it like to be addicted to sex? A self-confessed sex addict reveals how her addiction cost her to lose her husband, job, and baby.
According to a news report, 37-year-old Connie Chew says that whenever the urge to have sex hits her, she gets breathless, experiences hot flushes and images of making out with someone with flash through her mind. She adds that she has to fulfill this urge, no matter what.
As a result, Ms Chew goes looking for sex partners at nightclubs, and also indulges in cybersex and uses sex toys when she is 'unable to find a man'.
She reveals that she once had random sex with a former colleague and ended up at a budget hotel with three other men, all in the same day. When her binge ended at 4am, she decided to turn to her church counsellor, Katherine Ong, for help.
Her addiction has cost her dearly. She is twice divorced and was fired from her last job after an indiscretion was exposed. Her first marriage broke down because her husband was cheating on her. After her divorce, she went online to look for a relationship, and ended up having casual sex with several of these men.
Ms Chew met her second husband on a matchmaking website, and says she really loved him but did not enjoy sex with him. When her husband found out she had slept with a man she had picked up at a club in Phuket, the marriage went downhill.
After an argument with her husband where he called her a 'whore' and doubted if he was the father of her baby, she ended up sleeping with a foreign worker she saw a coffee shop in Geylang.
Two weeks later, she had an abortion and sent an email with the medical record to her husband. The subject line read, 'Hope this makes you happy'. He filed for divorce.
Ms Ong says Chew has been undergoing two years of counselling and her condition has improved. Whenever something goes wrong in her life, however, Ms Chew will suffer a relapse and urges will return.
Read the full report in The New Paper on Sunday (July 15). -
The problem is not sex addiction, but sexual desire not properly handled.
She has urges to indulge in sex.
Firstly she knows of her "condition" she should refrain from marriage, stay single.
Secondly, she should seek out one night stands with proper control.
Thirdly, she should practice safe sex, condoms compulsory, no oral sex, no kissing.
Fourth, she should be descrete, and not be 'famous'.
Fifth, all romps are purely for sex and orgasm, not love.
With proper control, there is no reason why she cannot be a nymph.
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There are many such addicts in SgForums....
One Good example.....
Ng Qibo Aaron Aubrey
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abortions are simple....
Sexually transmitted diseases are the main concerns.....
AIDS.
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Is Connie Chew sexy or a 30 something auntie?
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
Is Connie Chew sexy or a 30 something auntie?
You think she will post her picture on The NEWPAPER (dated 15 July) ?
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Hey what is her contact number? I will provide her with the pleasures that she never had. Offer last only for one night.
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Hey what is her contact number? I will provide her with the pleasures that she never had. Offer last only for one night.
i remember you posted somewhere you are a buddhist. -
Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Hey what is her contact number? I will provide her with the pleasures that she never had. Offer last only for one night.
But can she provide you with pleasure or not?
Been used so many times becareful u dun drop inside...
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Originally posted by Just_do_it_lah:
There are many such addicts in SgForums....
One Good example.....
Ng Qibo Aaron Aubrey
dun make fun of our 2LT Ng Qibo Aaron Aubrey hokay~~~wait he take the sword for the guard of honor and stab chiu~
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
dun make fun of our 2LT Ng Qibo Aaron Aubrey hokay~~~wait he take the sword for the guard of honor and stab chiu~
OMG....
our army got no better choice ?
Did he "mas" on his army uniforum ?
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Well I dunno... how would I know
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
Well I dunno... how would I know
U quietly go ask him lah.....
and quietly post his reply here.....
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Originally posted by dragg:
i remember you posted somewhere you are a buddhist.So? Is there anywhere written that buddhist cannot have sex?
I am not committed as a monk yet so I can at least fulfill my cravings first.
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I am a free thinker.....
Can i have sex ?
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Originally posted by JelloPoop:
But can she provide you with pleasure or not?
Been used so many times becareful u dun drop inside...
Dunno. But its free so why not try? And she's desperate....addicted to sex
The Vagina is design to drop back to to its former position. Its like rubber band. This is one of god's created marvels.
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"with a foreign worker she saw at a coffee shop in Geylang"!!!
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Originally posted by TehJarVu:
"with a foreign worker she saw at a coffee shop in Geylang"!!!
public toilets.... anyone can use.....
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
So? Is there anywhere written that buddhist cannot have sex?
I am not committed as a monk yet so I can at least fulfill my cravings first.
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Originally posted by Just_do_it_lah:
I am a free thinker.....
Can i have sex ?
Depends with what.If you are a guy and you want to have sex with a guy.
I would stay far far away from you.
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I was a victim. If it wasnt for my spare condom in the wallet.....
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that's what i call - a fucking machine
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Depends with what.If you are a guy and you want to have sex with a guy.
I would stay far far away from you.
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Depends with what.If you are a guy and you want to have sex with a guy.
I would stay far far away from you.
