we are happy. LOL
Reena told STOMP that after both she and her boyfriend cheated on each other, she realised how much she truly loved him.
It was only after he begged for a second chance did everything change.
“Each time someone ask how I first get to know my boyfriend, I will be too shy to tell,” she said.
“It was back at the end of year 2003, well, I made the first move because I was slacking at home with my cousin and I was bored, so I asked her, ‘any guy friend to introduce to me?’
“She gave me her mobile and I started to scroll down her contact list.
“Suddenly, a name caught my attention, (I found his name cute, that’s why).
“So, I got hold of that number and started to text him. I found out he was single, and I was too and that’s when it all started.
“We exchanged text messages almost everyday, 24/7.
“It was really crazy; I remembered when I used to top-up my mobile credit each day, just to keep in touch with him. (I just had this gut feeling, maybe he was the one)
“And, one month later we decided to have our first meet-up, (Damn, he’s cute!) Then, a few days later, we got ‘hitched’.
“It was like love was in the air for the first few months, our so-called our ‘Honeymoon’.
“I was feeling all great whenever I was with him.
“Maybe, it was the first time I felt I’m truly in Love.
“Well, I was only 16 years old at that time. It was a few months later when I suddenly spiced up the relationship.
“I started to hang out with some rookies, and I was uncontrollable. (I even forgot that I had a Boyfriend).
“I was dating with another guy, and I even told my Boyfriend I couldn’t be with him anymore.
“But, he persuaded me that I should give my decision a second thought, and that he will wait for me.
“And I simply, ignored him. (Oh my, what was I thinking at that time?)
“I admit, I was such a bad Girlfriend. It was only a few weeks later, then I came to my senses.
“After ignoring his multiple calls and messages, I finally gave in.
“We sorted things out, and I promised myself that I would change. Then on, everything was so fine. We were so happy together.
“On our second year of being together and we were both in ITE College by then, things started to spiced up again. (No, it’s not me again...)
“My Boyfriend did it this time round. (Now, I have to believe Karma does exist)
“It was even crazier this time round. I was really getting it all back.
“His personality, his attitude changed totally towards me. And I think I don’t know who he was at that point of time.
“I had the most terrible time of my life, trust me, I was really suffering. I couldn’t sleep at night, I couldn’t concentrate on my studies, and I even shunned my friends.
“And I repeatedly ditched school, and got barred from taking one of my examinations. (My parents didn’t know about this)
“And it was one of those days when I ditched school, because my Boyfriend was really sick (I found out from his Mum) that I visited him at his place.
“Seeing how weak he was at that point of time, I couldn’t bring myself to confront him about the issues we had. So, I acted as if nothing happen.
“But, everything changed when my Bf’s mobile rang. (He was in his room, and I was at his living room) I picked up the call, and it was a girl wanting to speak to him.
“My hands were shaking, and I felt like I could explode anytime soon.
“It was only then that I knew my Boyfriend had a ‘Scandal’.
“Knowing that my Boyfriend was still asleep, I suggested to that Girl, that it’s better if we meet up, and she agreed. (Damn, she even knew where my Boyfriend stays!)
“We had a good talk, and at the same time, I felt like punching her in the face too. She even showed me the messages my Boyfriend sent to her.
“All those mushy stuffs they text each other. *pukes* I was all filled with anger; (Well I know I did the same mistake too, but who’s not angry right?)
“And the worst part is that, she invited my Boyfriend to her house, twice. (And I don’t wish to know what happened there)
“A few minutes later, my Boyfriend showed up, and of course he was freaking shocked! He got caught red-handed. I just couldn’t take the blow, and broke up with him.
“I was all miserable and lost after we broke up, I even tried to kill myself, (Well, eventually, I dare not.)
“And after that incident, my Boyfriend was searching high and low for me, to patch things up.
“And he told me, what he did was just a moment of folly.
“I can’t deny the fact that I still love him and we got back together again.
“My feelings towards him grew more and more each day since the incident. But not for long, my Boyfriend did another show. *round of applause for him please*
“This time round, he got away a few times before I found out.
“He was hooking up with a girl from his school.
“Actually, I have a feeling he was keeping something from me, when he started to ignore my calls and messages, cancelled our meet-ups at the very last minute and such.
“I still remember, we were at KFC, and he was ordering the food, and I was meddling with his mobile, and I randomly scroll through his contacts, only to found out that my contact was not there!
“But instead, it was replaced with another unknown name. It was saved as *_ _ _ _ Darling* Darling?
“Who the hell is this girl, I was telling myself.
“But I kept it to myself, and return the phone to my Boyfriend.
“We packed the food and I told him I need to talk to him.
“So, we sat down at a void deck near his place.
“And I confronted him, asking who’s that Darling in his contacts is, and how come my contact is gone!
“He denied it at first, claiming it was just a friend and he accidentally delete off my contact. (Maybe he thinks I’m still a kid and that I would buy his story)
“I was really furious; I slammed all the food and drinks we bought earlier.
“Only then, he began to tell the truth. Damn, only God knows how hurt I am at that point of time. I left the place, and went home.
“We didn’t contact each other for a few days, and I was wondering why he didn’t look up for me since.
“I tried to get hold of him, but I failed numerous times.
“It was only after I pleaded with him, he agreed to meet me.
“And only to find out, he was still with that girl and because by then I knew he dumped me. (I was stupid to put hopes on him, that he would realize his mistakes).
“And again, I was suffering all by myself; I cried to my sleep almost every night, I was so lost and going crazy.
“I loved him too much, I still can’t accept the fact that he left me.
“One day, I was at school, I received a message from him, saying that he wants to meet me.
“I was all shocked, and wasted no time; I left the class halfway just to meet him.
“When I saw him, I cried, it’s been more than a week since I last saw him.
“We talked things out, he truly regretted what he did and wanted to be with me.
“My gut feeling told me to give him a second chance and I did.
“My girlfriends totally disagreed with my decision, saying that I was too gullible and that I shouldn’t have patched things up with him.
“But well, I said, ‘Everyone deserves a second chance, and I know he will change’.
“I loved him, I loved him more than anything else.
“It was a few months later, he was serving the nation, and slowly I can see him change to the better, and I couldn’t ask for more.
“It has been until now that he has loved me like no other.
“And I know he’s going to be my last. I am happy whenever I’m with him, he makes my life complete.
“We have been together for 6years and 7months now, and are getting engaged next month, February *on Valentines Day*.
“At times, I still couldn’t believe that we have made it this far. But I’m glad, we did. *grinning form ear to ear*
“What I’m trying to say here is that, no matter how big someone made a mistake, we should give him/her a chance, you just have to believe in it. It happened to me.”
so pple, moral of the story is in order to find out how much u really love ur partner, cheat on them. Goodness gracious this is a ferreaking joke, teens these days. They have no idea what shit they are talking.