I rather remain single than marry a wrong woman
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Thanks for your links to nice songs....seems like you favour oldies ?
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In fact, there is no wrong woman exists in this world but how your treatment to make her forever in lovingly sweet, and that is your call of duty to know your level of love...Didn't you notice that a baby is always lovely until you make her not lovely anymore haha
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Marriage is a gamble, some win some loose .. No sure win, but if lose, can try again
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hopefully one can try without losing any money ...can the system ensure that?
if the system could, there wouldn't be any rise in singles...
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This is a useful thread i feel. But i have to say, thinkings change over time. When i was young, from teens to early 20s, i want to concentrate on my studies so no gf to distract me. In my mid 20s to 30 yrs old, with the low income, i have no confident to really setting up a family. The marriage divorce situation does not help as well, i was thinking to staying single all my life. One day in my 31st yr, i suddenly realized i had missed out a lot of things and started chasing after girls. Wanting to marry by 35yrs old, have kids to go home to and someone by my side when i get old. Now i am 34 yrs old 'uncle'. after a few failed relationshipship, i am thinking in 1 yrs time, if i cannot meet my destine other, what should i do? Stay single and work for more money forever? Will my thinking change in the future? You bet! But nobody can gaurantee the future. I will just have to do my best every step of the way.
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Ah don't sweat it. I got married at 40. It took me (so to speak) 4 decades to find the right woman. I couldn't be happier now.
Mind you, I almost took 'the wrong route with the wrong women' a few times before that. Phew*
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Wow, did you have kids btw? My current gf is in early 30s. so time is running out for us in a way.
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No kids yet. I've done my share of travelling (when I was young, stupid and carefree). She hasn't. We're determined to turn her into a world-weary jaded cynic before she gets the mood to squeeze a puppy (or two) out.
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we cannot absolve sluttish materialistic desires...
we only hope that the system is not blind to favour them at our expense....
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in this life, either you are married or not?
so move on
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When we reach 60 yrs old and still single, will we regret not having children and not married? Of cos our married frens have many sons/daughters and grand children....how will we feel ? Sad?
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About our SG GALS and WHITE GALS
- Big Apple Boy:
June 16, 2011 at 2:06 am
Big Apple Boy(Quote)
as i have dated both singaporean women and white american women it is fair for me to comment.
i notice that singaporean women are more materialistic on the whole and no doubt there’s this hegemony that a lot of chinese singaporean ladies demonstrate when they have a white guy on their arm.
for me living in singapore for the past 5 years and completely immersing myself in the culture of this city that i have come to call home, i have become all too familiar with the whole white-guy-chinese-girl topic.
oddly enough i have actually gone through several discussions with my singaporean friends on the topic of sarong party girl and will try my best to summarize the main crux of it from the point of view of a white american living extensively in singapore.
firstly, a lot of singaporean ladies argue that their preference in white men stem from the fact that most white men are more geocentric with a worldly view to certain subject matters which makes interesting conversation. i find this point of view difficult to comprehend as i have dated many highly educated singaporean ladies who are unable to relate to these so-called worldly topics of conversation which has left me stifling my yawns all too often at dinner dates.
secondly, some of my female singaporean friends have expressed unhappiness that their male counterparts do not know how a real lady would like to be treated and it seems that only white guys know what buttons need to be pushed.
finally, there is this impression that the color of a guy’s skin is a connotation to his level of wealth, success and aptitude (yes i have some very honest female singaporean friends!).
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White males are generally richer....and many are very rich....
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Marriage is expensive. Kids are more expensive. Divorce is the MOST expensive. Don't do it man.
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Originally posted by alize:
Marriage is expensive. Kids are more expensive. Divorce is the MOST expensive. Don't do it man.
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Originally posted by dechang:
You can marry, just a rom without dinner or honeymoon and don't have kids if you want cheapThen the contingent liability of divorce will be hanging over your head.
I'd rather just cohabit for ever. I will host a dinner but NOT a wedding dinner cos doing that without ROM is a criminal offence (for the male, WTF).
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Originally posted by Amitayus48:
In fact, there is no wrong woman exists in this world but how your treatment to make her forever in lovingly sweet, and that is your call of duty to know your level of love...Didn't you notice that a baby is always lovely until you make her not lovely anymore haha
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Being gay, and nothing to lose if I don't marry, I have to say that I am rather rich. Don't
need to spend on girlfriends. The problem for gays is that there is no woman to
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Apart from legal registration requirements, no one says if you're married you must do this or that, or if you're not married, you cannot do that or this. Its up to you if you want to follow what the 'normal' way of doing things or not.
There are no rules.
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Originally posted by Bhw33:
Being gay, and nothing to lose if I don't marry, I have to say that I am rather rich. Don't
need to spend on girlfriends. The problem for gays is that there is no woman to
sweep the floor and mob the dirt and wash my clothes. So what can I do? Sniff sniff.
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Loor, men and women are wired diferently. The woman's role is to procreate, look after babies, sweep and clean d floor, perform laundry duties and prepare meals for men n their children. Impossible to suggest displacing this social order that has been in place for 6 millenia.
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Originally posted by Bhw33:
Loor, men and women are wired diferently. The woman's role is to procreate, look after babies, sweep and clean d floor, perform laundry duties and prepare meals for men n their children. Impossible to suggest displacing this social order that has been in place for 6 millenia.
Nowadays women role in the family have changed....all maids do their dirty jobs....