I rather remain single than marry a wrong woman
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Originally posted by parn:
Capable men are not able to handle capable women, and it has been proven it many times in the past and also in the present.But capable women knows how to capture her capable men and give him the impression that he is the one who is smarter, and the men will never know it is because the capable women allowed herself to play the lesser part in the relationship.
I know so cos I do that all the time.
if thats the case, there is no need for a women's charter in Spore. time to abolish this charter to reflect equalness of the both sex. women should serve NS as well.
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Amusing to hear "Parn" state that (Women should pick their Men carefully. A good guide would be to follow the Men who can earn the most money, that would be the most capable Men of all Mens".)
But i doubt the guy she pick would not be anywhere near capable...coz if a guy is really that capable and earning tons of money. The last thing he want would be to marry a girl and give up the rest.
Guys are not idiots nowadays...with woman charter looming over their head...last thing they want to do is get married if they are extremely loaded....><"
Not forgeting that when you are loaded, it will no longer be a case of you going after women but women going after you...:P
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
if thats the case, there is no need for a women's charter in Spore. time to abolish this charter to reflect equalness of the both sex. women should serve NS as well.
Don't know how you think women's charter is related to what I have mentioned in my post.But of course women are capable of serving NS when they are required to do so.
Like for example, when the men are able to give birth to children, or when the men have amputated their genitals due to accident or diseases, or when men undergo voluntary castration of their genitals, or when men became gays and ah kuas and etc....
Women are only needed to serve NS only at times when Men have utter failures in the society.
But of course there are many brave and capable women who have voluntarily sign up to serve their NS. We must give these brave ladies the utmost honour and respect for taking up roles in society where men would rather run screaming away with fear and hide like cowards.
I don't see any reasons for men to complain about women when women are really capable of taking up many roles in the society and effectively replacing men as more capable and productive workforce.
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Originally posted by maxsee:
Amusing to hear "Parn" state that (Women should pick their Men carefully. A good guide would be to follow the Men who can earn the most money, that would be the most capable Men of all Mens".)
But i doubt the guy she pick would not be anywhere near capable...coz if a guy is really that capable and earning tons of money. The last thing he want would be to marry a girl and give up the rest.
Guys are not idiots nowadays...with woman charter looming over their head...last thing they want to do is get married if they are extremely loaded....><"
Not forgeting that when you are loaded, it will no longer be a case of you going after women but women going after you...:P
You description does applies to bad capable men out there, and I do not doubt the credibility of your information.
But the good men who are capable would fall into the category which I have described in my post.
And not forgetting that capable women would only pick the good and capable men.
Bad and capable men like what you have described, would have been struck out and eliminated without consideration from capable women.
Do not forget that it's the women who make the relationship possible for her men.
Men can only get into a straight relationship when the Women are willing.
So do not forget that women will always have the upper hand in a relationship.
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Aiyah remain single better lah....
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I dun really think that "Parn" you should classify men who are capable as bad or good....it is just how the different individuals want to lead their life....And let's face it once a man has everything, there's virtually no way he will want to settle down with the so call capable woman.
The last thing any men with the right mind would want to do is choose a girl who is over capable...why would a man who has everything want to submit to awoman. I am sure he would rather choose a bimbo who would submit to all his whims and needs.
I also do not think that it is woman who make the relationship possible for men...this only apply to men who are less capable then the women themselves....when a woman eye is only onto capable men. The moment she met such a man, there is an extremely high chance that she will throw herself at the man himself. Man who are extremely capable earning tons of money will have women queuing up to throw themselves at their feet.
So really there is no such thing as either gender having the upper hand in the relationship...
Last but not least, in a marriage a man stands to lose a lot of things if it dun works out. Wheras for a woman they will always have the upper hand in the event of a divorce(With Woman Charter Protecting Them)....any man who is capable enough to be earning tons of money would definitely be smart enough to think twice before marriage....
That is the reason why a lot of men who are earning tons of $$$ only get married when they are into their 40s or 50s and the need for future generation arise. And usually their wife would be a young nymph....Since in exchange for the girl's youth and body...she get to use his money...Marriage nowadays is no longer about love...but more like a trading relationship....><"
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If guys can go for beautiful gals, nothing wrong if gals go for rich guys, right?
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women only have the upper hand when they are beautiful and choosing average joe as there are plenty medicore suitors.
capable men with resources are always having the upper hand when choosing beautiful ladies. this is also genetic selection as well.
Capable men do not need to always necessarily choose capable women. when he knows he has abundance of resources to provide, why would he need a capable woman? what he need is a wife to support him emotionally and physically. A lady who are willing to stick to him thick and thin.
They obviously do not need women telling men that women has the upperhand as they have many others who willing to compromise. A relationship is not about getting the upperhand. it is about gaining happiness when we share.
Originally posted by parn:You description does applies to bad capable men out there, and I do not doubt the credibility of your information.
But the good men who are capable would fall into the category which I have described in my post.
And not forgetting that capable women would only pick the good and capable men.
Bad and capable men like what you have described, would have been struck out and eliminated without consideration from capable women.
Do not forget that it's the women who make the relationship possible for her men.
Men can only get into a straight relationship when the Women are willing.
So do not forget that women will always have the upper hand in a relationship.
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Originally posted by zzlee1:
what he need is a wife to support him emotionally and physically. A lady who are willing to stick to him thick and thin.
Amen ! You know what I am talking about!
But as for a capable women, it's always a bonus. Being able to manage some of his affairs. =)
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Originally posted by parn:
Don't know how you think women's charter is related to what I have mentioned in my post.But of course women are capable of serving NS when they are required to do so.
Like for example, when the men are able to give birth to children, or when the men have amputated their genitals due to accident or diseases, or when men undergo voluntary castration of their genitals, or when men became gays and ah kuas and etc....
Women are only needed to serve NS only at times when Men have utter failures in the society.
But of course there are many brave and capable women who have voluntarily sign up to serve their NS. We must give these brave ladies the utmost honour and respect for taking up roles in society where men would rather run screaming away with fear and hide like cowards.
I don't see any reasons for men to complain about women when women are really capable of taking up many roles in the society and effectively replacing men as more capable and productive workforce.
WOWvery nice comeback
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Being single has alot of freedom! Marrying the sala woman can be a hellish experience!
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Being single has alot of freedom! Marrying the sala woman can be a hellish experience!
Can write a book about marrying a sala woman and earn money -
Originally posted by single_alone:
Can write a book about marrying a sala woman and earn moneyHas anybody done that yet? Its good money right? I have many stories to tell but no publisher want my stories leh....
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Has anybody done that yet? Its good money right? I have many stories to tell but no publisher want my stories leh....
Did u try to find for publisher?That Kassandra Kong published a book about her life on how she got cheated by her bf and now she is rich
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so negative.... cheer up, you will miss alot of good things when you keep seeing only the bad...
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Being single is also challenging...must make alot of frens...otherwise will be lonely when old age....
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Being single is also challenging...must make alot of frens...otherwise will be lonely when old age....
old single guys will probably end up getting their money cheated by prostituties.. -
Not likely, single old men are lonely but not stupid mah....hahaha!
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Originally posted by maxsee:
I dun really think that "Parn" you should classify men who are capable as bad or good....it is just how the different individuals want to lead their life....And let's face it once a man has everything, there's virtually no way he will want to settle down with the so call capable woman.
The last thing any men with the right mind would want to do is choose a girl who is over capable...why would a man who has everything want to submit to awoman. I am sure he would rather choose a bimbo who would submit to all his whims and needs.
I also do not think that it is woman who make the relationship possible for men...this only apply to men who are less capable then the women themselves....when a woman eye is only onto capable men. The moment she met such a man, there is an extremely high chance that she will throw herself at the man himself. Man who are extremely capable earning tons of money will have women queuing up to throw themselves at their feet.
So really there is no such thing as either gender having the upper hand in the relationship...
Last but not least, in a marriage a man stands to lose a lot of things if it dun works out. Wheras for a woman they will always have the upper hand in the event of a divorce(With Woman Charter Protecting Them)....any man who is capable enough to be earning tons of money would definitely be smart enough to think twice before marriage....
That is the reason why a lot of men who are earning tons of $$$ only get married when they are into their 40s or 50s and the need for future generation arise. And usually their wife would be a young nymph....Since in exchange for the girl's youth and body...she get to use his money...Marriage nowadays is no longer about love...but more like a trading relationship....><"
Parn classifies men into who has a big cauc and who doesn't
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How about people who cohabit but dun intend to get married? Its a popular trend nowadays isn't it? Are they considered as single?
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i like that idea but hard finding ladies who are willing into that.
i guess most sg ladies are still following asian values. they want to have a name and a "rights" to the guy's asset in case things fall out. i have yet to have any of my guy friends into cohabit.
i think mistresses are more common. i have pretty female friend and colleague into mistresses. one is hooked to an oil & gas GM and another one is hooked to my rich friend BIL. talk about small world. haha....
Originally posted by Demon Bane:How about people who cohabit but dun intend to get married? Its a popular trend nowadays isn't it? Are they considered as single?
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today weather is very good to +1
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
How about people who cohabit but dun intend to get married? Its a popular trend nowadays isn't it? Are they considered as single?
How many people would choose to cohabit rather than marriage?
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
How many people would choose to cohabit rather than marriage?
if cohabit cannot buy cheaper and new hdb flats than have to forever stay with parents leh.. -
Originally posted by single_alone:
if cohabit cannot buy cheaper and new hdb flats than have to forever stay with parents leh..That's a sad fact, many people get married just for the sake of applying new HDB flats...if cohabit must wait until age 35 then buy resale HDB flats....expensive also!