Originally posted by laurence82:
wtf
i'm with you.....
wtf
maybe she got some problems that she can't say?
try telling her a joke or.... best of all... if u cant beat her, join her...
Atleast it is better then chatting till the other party fall asleep....
I will go
" Hello... Hello... Hello... Hello... Hello..." until she answer or put down the phone ^.^
I start screaming into the phone till she wakes...
I felt that it would be considerate for you to either keep quiet or say somthing comforting to her. For I believe, you are partly responsible for her emotions. So, it would be nice for you to stay on the line or offer to meet her. Because, talking about emotions over the phone is simply impractical and certainly not comforting from my point of view.
If this goes on rather frequently then I hope that you will check to see what is really bothering her. I do not know how you would show your concern and I am certainly not going to tell you what to do - when you know what and how you should do.
those who cry on the phone liddat must really have a slow mind........wan cry make sure you dun make people pay for the bill lah.......
Originally posted by ^tamago^:What if your gf talk to you half way and while talking halfway she keep silent
then u heard weeping sound then you ask hello
u thereare you ok ?
but she dun want to answer.. she is still on line cos u hear her sniffing…
u say hello hello and ask her to ans but she diam diam…
But u cant hook up or else she will ignore u and dun find u…
This will carry on for 1 hr…..what will u do and can u tahan this kind of attitude ???
you got gf? i tot u say u dun haf?
Originally posted by rlsh07:
you got gf? i tot u say u dun haf?
Originally posted by ^tamago^:
it's not me asking about it!
but u started the thread mah
Originally posted by rlsh07:but u started the thread mah
Originally posted by ^tamago^:
u dun geddit.
i really dun get it though. hmm...
Experienced before. She dun talk u talk.
U should probably know what is she crying about.
Give her your side of the story, your reasons for actions and your feelings then.
Hello hello no use... 5 hrs still there.
After u have given your reasons, tell her to calm down, sleep early, try to forgive you, you love her.
Then tmr go look for her and hug her.
hmm.. then who ask abt it though?
Originally posted by rlsh07:hmm.. then who ask abt it though?
Originally posted by ^tamago^:
u dun wanna know.
oh i @@. hmm...
Yah, speaker phone is the answer. Put her on and do your normal stuff.
If she is still not talking then you also pretend to cry. She sure cannot tahan and ask you why you cry, then you say i cry because you cry. Hehehe score point.
if after you pretend to cry also no response, just scream "Ouch,,,,,,,ah......ah.......i am bleeding.........."
if still no response, then dump her. She is not worth it.
in such situation you shouldnt hello hello but instead comfort her or say sth.. jokes whatever anything goes but never keep silent. She'd be thinkin 'wtf.... cant u say somethin instead of hello hello u dumbdumb '
i will try to make her tell jokes whatever to cheer her up. But first of all i'll ask her wassup? if she doesnt want to tell so be it i wont force her, maybe i will ask her at a later time or she'd be willin to open up when shes ready?
Ok so, depends what phone im usin.. if cellphone and if shes the one who calls
me that means its free incomin so thats ok and if i've nth to do at that moment i'd ask her where she is then while travelin to her place (dont tell her u're goin over) i'd chat with her on the phone until i reach her place then pop out behind her bring flowers along if possible.
It's better to talk face-to-face than on the phone i hate phone talks
If it's late night and you dont have transport then just talk to her on the phone, just DONT keep silent. And dont ask qns like 'Why are you crying? Are you ok?' why this and that. She will tell you if she's willing to. Talk bout things that are not necessary to have her included.. eg interesting encounter of yours during a trip at xxx.. usually when one's sad she will not wanting to talk but listen. Since she doesnt want to talk and hang up so tell some stories for her. Once she speaks you can ask her whats the matter etc....
and nb why i type so much
but of course, such situation can be irritating..
depends what kind of gf is that, if your not that serious bout her then tell her:
'wtf? dont want to talk right? ok bye i go sgf riaos' then hang up
oh jia lat! she pregnant is it?
Originally posted by Caitaokue:oh jia lat! she pregnant is it?
hmm.. no idea though
hang up den sms. ahahaha.
Originally posted by ChoCoChips:hang up den sms. ahahaha.
hmm.. like so insenstive like that
rly ma, if rly she cry cry cry and ignore me.
might as well sms.
or i will crack lame jokes. haha