Over protective or just concern?

• seotiblizzard

  15 Oct 07, 04:40

  Do u think some guys are over protective of their gfs, to the extent of like limiting them to this and that only? This cannot, that cannot.
  
  Some of their reasons are due to their hindsight of being liberal and aft numerous expierences, they become over protective. Some of them are just being 'concern'.
• Patrik

  15 Oct 07, 04:49

  
• AndrewPKYap

  15 Oct 07, 04:49

  both
• Isis

  15 Oct 07, 04:53

  Sometime, guys lack of trust and have fear of losing her in the relationship bah. They set stupid rules to limit the gf and unwittingly wanting to destroy the relationship..
  
  And some guys are just genuinely concern about the girlfriend's safety.
  
  I think ultimately boil down to what is really your intention?
  
  If it is the former, then the consequence would be much harder to handle and if it is out of genuine concern, i think in the end, the girlfriend will understand bah.
  
  Just have to check your intention.
  
  Relationship is not about owning someone
• seotiblizzard

  15 Oct 07, 13:38

  Agreed.
  
• popikachu

  15 Oct 07, 16:52

  Teach dardar the correct thing is correct mah...
  Like she keep forcing me to quit smoking -.-"
• TrixCereals

  15 Oct 07, 16:54

  Learn to let go at times.
  
  Its mostly a case of having not enough trust in your partner.
• de_middle

  15 Oct 07, 16:57

  Originally posted by popikachu:

  Teach dardar the correct thing is correct mah...
  Like she keep forcing me to quit smoking -.-"

  so u didn't obliged right i supposed
• seotiblizzard

  15 Oct 07, 23:37

  I hate control freaks be it a guy or a gal.
  
• hisoka

  15 Oct 07, 23:40

  Originally posted by seotiblizzard:

  Do u think some guys are over protective of their gfs, to the extent of like limiting them to this and that only? This cannot, that cannot.
  
  Some of their reasons are due to their hindsight of being liberal and aft numerous expierences, they become over protective. Some of them are just being 'concern'.

  it depends some are jsut possessive, but there are those who know what they are not allowing, jsut that the gf sometimes abit immature......or the guy is just paranoid
• sLeEpWaLkErInG

  15 Oct 07, 23:42

  most of the time, the fault doesn't lie with the other party.
  
  Lack of confidence to maintain the relationship/marriage, no trust, over-suspicion.
  
  all these are taboo..