Is this worse than rape?
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I don't see what's so difficult turning down an 'opportunity' like this.Originally posted by Gackt247:it's easy to say one thing.. but to actually do it is hard.
Maybe it all boils down to what kind of moral values we hold. I'm not saying you have no moral values, just different. Not wrong, just different.
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Thanks for attempting to clarify my post with your interpretation, but please do not generalize.Originally posted by skid:so basically what you're saying is females are incapable of making decisions and require men to do that for them. -
perhaps its the perspective from where we are looking at?
lets say if A is someone close to you i think you would naturally feel that B is some sort of a idiot to a certain extent. -
i bet this is coolgal's story
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right, great ...
the girl spreads her legs and the guy gets blamed .....
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You got something against her?Originally posted by Omniknight:i bet this is coolgal's story -
Jerk.
The guy is only interested in free sex.
Obviously he is using her just as a sex object.
Some girls are just so 'silly'.
They just cannot let go of the past. -
i dun think it'll matter whether we r closer to A or B that'll make us think a certain way since now none of us know who A or B is. i think the general diff would be whether the person posting is a female or male.
anyways, dunno the full story.
the guy broke up with the girl? but the girl still loves the guy. and since the girl still loves him and wants to see him, he decided that he'll let her see him if she lets him fuck her?
im totally confused here.
if he broke up with her, why would he still see her anyways?
love can make pple do damn stupid things such as killing the lover. personally i dunno what love is, so i cant comment on whether there is any truth to that sentence.
i see it as, she goes to have sex with him, hoping that it'll make him want her back. guess it didnt work.
id suggest counselling for the girl to help her get over this. as for the guy, dont think he'll give a shit what happens to her anways?
i dont think there is any real right or wrong here. and is this worse than rape? well, cant compare. u know, it's like comparing an apple and an orange. it's all totally different. -
lol.Originally posted by Patrik:You got something against her?
he stills bear a grudge. -
Originally posted by seotiblizzard:lol.
he stills bear a grudge. 
What happened? -
i dunno exactly.Originally posted by Patrik:
What happened?
coolgal dunno say wad abt omniknight on some past thread which expire liao. then omni knight not happy.
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Originally posted by udontknowme:
It aint a story abt someone here.
i dun think it'll matter whether we r closer to A or B that'll make us think a certain way since now none of us know who A or B is. i think the general diff would be whether the person posting is a female or male.
Its more like she decided that since its the only way to see him, she would let him fuck her.
anyways, dunno the full story.
the guy broke up with the girl? but the girl still loves the guy. and since the girl still loves him and wants to see him, he decided that he'll let her see him if she lets him fuck her?
3ex?
im totally confused here.
if he broke up with her, why would he still see her anyways?
more or less.
i see it as, she goes to have sex with him, hoping that it'll make him want her back. guess it didnt work.
i think so too. He didnt give a sh!t like i have posted somewhere above.
id suggest counselling for the girl to help her get over this. as for the guy, dont think he'll give a shit what happens to her anways?
I apologise for the misleading title. I wanted to ask for opinions on whether the feeling that the girl feels is worst than rape.
i dont think there is any real right or wrong here. and is this worse than rape? well, cant compare. u know, it's like comparing an apple and an orange. it's all totally different.
I don't wish to know who is right or wrong.
And those with personal issues take ur crap out of this thread. -
Girl: I love him. ~~~~ Love's fault.
Boy: She gives, i take lor. ~~~ Lust's fault. -
haha.Originally posted by Delphian:Girl: I love him. ~~~~ Love's fault.
Boy: She gives, i take lor. ~~~ Lust's fault.
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As someone has mention, ni qing wo yuan, there is no one to blame on.
For guys wo think that the guy in this picture is wrong, think again, will u able to reject the s@x when its in front of u? Think again if ur ex is a super duper pretty babe, u r single, she is single, u have needs, she have needs and she offer u that, will u reject?
I not supporting the action but I just cant stand some ppl trying to prove that they are noble by saying something that goes with the crowd. -
I just think its sad why the girl thought about it this way.
The guy was being opportunistic...the girl thought that she could still get him back. But whoever is able to "monopolize" the situation will always have the upperhand advantage.
Usually, girls in these situations will just suffer depression at the end of everything while the guys just get free sex in exchange. Well, but you can't say its the guy's fault because she whether was unwilling/willing she did sleep with him on a regular basis.
I won't say this is worse than rape. Rape is by strangers and usually you get abused physically and mentally. This situation is just emotional abuse. So it's not worse than rape, its just that the girl doesn't know how to choose between the grey zones. She knew she was wrong but still she did it. She will just regret that part of her life when she looks back, she can choose to remember or forget and feign ignorance. Rape will cause permanent damage because you can never erase that part of your life.
So it's not worse than rape. Its just plain stupidity. -
zhao zhi jing ri.
he bi dang chu. -
who will want to get attached again?
who will want to fall in love again?
who will believe love is beautiful again?
no attach -> no fall in love -> no love making -> no sex -> no rape
conclusion: let's not fall in love again!!!
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agreedOriginally posted by fairlady_xoxo:I just think its sad why the girl thought about it this way.
The guy was being opportunistic...the girl thought that she could still get him back. But whoever is able to "monopolize" the situation will always have the upperhand advantage.
Usually, girls in these situations will just suffer depression at the end of everything while the guys just get free sex in exchange. Well, but you can't say its the guy's fault because she whether was unwilling/willing she did sleep with him on a regular basis.
I won't say this is worse than rape. Rape is by strangers and usually you get abused physically and mentally. This situation is just emotional abuse. So it's not worse than rape, its just that the girl doesn't know how to choose between the grey zones. She knew she was wrong but still she did it. She will just regret that part of her life when she looks back, she can choose to remember or forget and feign ignorance. Rape will cause permanent damage because you can never erase that part of your life.
So it's not worse than rape. Its just plain stupidity. -
Happened to me once when i was with my ex gf. We were on starhub cruise that night and she told me she's mine for the night. But i acted holy and never did a thing.
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Gacky has attained nirvana!Originally posted by Gackt247:Haiz.. nv ever let ur heart rule over ur mind.
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its before i even came to sgforumsOriginally posted by seotiblizzard:i dunno exactly.
coolgal dunno say wad abt omniknight on some past thread which expire liao. then omni knight not happy.
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B is not single. She doesnt have needs. She is just having sex for the sake of seeing him.Originally posted by SpeedStar:As someone has mention, ni qing wo yuan, there is no one to blame on.
For guys wo think that the guy in this picture is wrong, think again, will u able to reject the s@x when its in front of u? Think again if ur ex is a super duper pretty babe, u r single, she is single, u have needs, she have needs and she offer u that, will u reject?
I not supporting the action but I just cant stand some ppl trying to prove that they are noble by saying something that goes with the crowd.
hows that?