Originally posted by carpe diem jur:
to be honest, u THINK u'r doing it out of gud intentions to 'protect' ur gf emotionally/mentally, but are u AWARE of wat u are doing??!!! if u are, u wouldnt have started this thread to ask abt consequences. U are NOT even aware of urself, let alone trying to 'solve' THEIR problems.
Sad to say, u'll creating more trouble for ur gf, her family members, and the poor dogs, U think they like it??
no offence. i'm only stating facts i think u should understand and consider more carefully in future.
1. i know what i am doing. and the consquences behind this. i ask here only to confirm what i already know. If I dun know the rules, and to phrase it well, how do u expect my complaint to go through and be effective. Anyway I always believe in long term solution than a short term one. short term pain is better than long term.
2. Not only i know the situation WELL, i consider all factors before doing this. u only know what i tell u here. while i understand. know and feel the problem personally.
3. basing on the situation, since the "orginal" owners do not want to take care of it and the chores that comes along with the dog. Yet expect & demand people to do it for them. (which i find it totally unreasonable)
Not to mention the problems the dogs bring to people (fighting with each other, bitting and destroyng items and articles.) Getting rid of it will be best for everyone.
4. I know u mean well. but have trust that i think through everything before i carried it out. i dun like being taught or have to explain my actions to everyone. Since i make a decision, i am willing to suffer any consequences or back lash that comes with it. I believe the same that you will think the same too.
cheers~