The Ladies' Rules
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1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
2. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
3. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
7. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
8. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better.
9. The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.
10. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
11. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
12. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
13. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
14. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
15. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
16. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
17. Never let a man define who you are.
18. Never borrow someone else's man.
19. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
20. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
21. NOT all men are dogs.
22. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
23. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
24. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
25. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
26. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
27. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. -
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NOOO~!!
why spill our secrets
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28: When he goes out fighting crime and saving the world, do cook up a good meal. Or order Pizza if you cannot cook.
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huh....Originally posted by Bontakun:28: When he goes out fighting crime and saving the world, do cook up a good meal. Or order Pizza if you cannot cook.
superman/spiderman or wat??? -
Policeman, NSman, soldierman, fireman, paramedic, etc, etc.Originally posted by alvin-ncs:huh....
superman/spiderman or wat??? -
oh...Originally posted by Bontakun:Policeman, NSman, soldierman, fireman, paramedic, etc, etc.
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Your tips seem similar. Are they from Why men love bit ches? hehe... new book came out oredi... why men marry bit ches! Ladies go grab the book! Its time to get married after hooking the men!!! ta ta ta da..!!! ta da ta da....!!!!!
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Dunno leh, I got it from email one..Originally posted by luv me or hate me:Your tips seem similar. Are they from Why men love bit ches? hehe... new book came out oredi... why men marry bit ches! Ladies go grab the book! Its time to get married after hooking the men!!! ta ta ta da..!!! ta da ta da....!!!!! -
wow!! come to think abt it, it seems so true abt GUYS!!
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Originally posted by laurence82: