I really dun wan to complain here but kinda angry leh...
-
hmmm.. i dun understand para 1? cos the situation in the topic dun seems to match with tat? i dun think he will shout at people when he is moody or mad bah? i dun know~~ u to know, u to find out~~ u know him personally mah~~ u count the numbe rof times he shouted or scold u lor?Originally posted by carpe diem jur:and one last thing, Never Start Anything U Cannot Finish !!!
1.for example, if i insist wan go taiwan, i fail there and i am very sad, i come back to singapore, throw temper at everyone and scolded everyone, u think is fair?? this is an example oni lah, that means, i start it, i make sure i dun blame anyone else if it goes wrong in between... get what i mean??
2.another example, if i post this here and that person happens to see it and i said his doings made mi do this and is not of my wish, not fair right?? i mean if i post this and it offended him alot, made him very angry, dan i will admit is my fault coz i started this topic first and posted it first... of course in that case i will apologise sincerely for posting this.. i wil be responsible for starting this, i have tot over carefully before doing it lor... and my intention is to get some advise how wrong am i in this whole situation coz i'm confused... if he dun like i will delete and apologise, i wil bear responsibilities...
3.same thing, this person wan start teasing, he dun get the teasing back in return, and people told him off, instead he blamed the person for telling him off, fair anot? the questions to ask are: what is his intention? (yeah i agree with some of u guys' replies... thankx alot ya !!) lastly, can he tek it when it go wrong??
4.i am not perfect either, i have my flaws and tend to be unable to deal with responsibilities properly... i can oni try my best to learn how to handle responsibilities, though might never be the right way each tym... to err is human... i do not bear grudges against him or blame him, coz i shouted (virtually) at him too, which i flared my temper first... i will show my true self when it comes to friends, i dun think i should pretend that i can beat around the bush when it comes to things i consider alittle serious... it is no virtue about being frank and honest, so is it juz a weapon to get hurt afterall?? or i should be fake to this friend in order to avoid arguements with him??
5.anyway, binz, thank Q for coming around...
for para 2, i find it normal lah? it is just the matter u talk one to one with another friend only mah?it defeats the purpose of the forum if we cant put up topics to ask advice mah~ i think u can go hit the guy if he tell u he is mad becos of this!! dun tell him i say tat though~~ co im a gentlemen~ heh.. got an image to upkeep
para 3 is a bit tricky though? i think the tone of the words plays a great part~ (say by experts!) if one get too intimidating, insulting or sacarstic when u tease people, anyone will get mad bah? how do one know u are teasing or not if u sound like tat mah? right? its the same for people who jokes or tease people a lot.. ( those who have a laughing ring behind their words or tone) tat can be easily differenciate even the wrods seens bad mah.. something like tat? i dunno~~ im no expert~ must ask older people like bear~~
for para 4, yup.. it is good u are straight forward and trying to be honest.. but there are times one need to tell people tat u are serious before u say anything.. and also the hint utell people might not be obvious enough? there are poeple who needs to tell straight in the face, there are people which one can be more discreet?
example.. there was a certain day while we are chatting, a gd friend of mine keep bugging me about why i dun have a gf etc. he keep talking about oppturnities available to me, so on so for.. and he keep pushing it. i end it with "K(his name), bu yau zhai shuo ler.." (serious tone)
before he say anything again i say this, "wo zhai shuo tuo yi chi.. bu yau zhai shuo ler" tat abruptly end that conversation and we move to something else.. even now he will tease me evry now and then, but it nv get to the same point when he repeat it 10, 20 times in the same conversation.
im hungry~~~ i go eat first ler~~ wei.. where's my mod status?? trying to skip my question is it?? -.-"
para 5: no worries.. i always be there if u do need me! i told u tat before.
errrmmm.. dun let Gacky know about this k? or else i be roasted alive~~
hink i look much better alive and kicking right? 
i hope u think the same! heh. 
-
rats can make heros de?? trying to do a herioc act of hekping the guy leh!! can i be ur side kick?Originally posted by RaTtY81:ok if tis can make u better i take the blame u can call me mousy~ -
Errr.. diao.. -_-!!!
-
Originally posted by binZ:rats can make heros de?? trying to do a herioc act of hekping the guy leh!! can i be ur side kick? u can call me mousy~
-
haha.. so hows the deal, dude? mousy and ratty sounds compatible mah!Originally posted by RaTtY81: -
yo dude! why so shocked? it sounds cool wat! mousy~~Originally posted by Gackt247:Errr.. diao.. -_-!!! -
yea ratty n mousy team
-
ok ok~ since we are partners, must intro myself a bit lah!Originally posted by RaTtY81:yea ratty n mousy team
hi ratty! im mousy! im 24 this yr! u leh! -
carpe diem jur is a gal!
Errr nvm... out of point. -
Doesnt matter.. my rat-poison will exterminate Ratty n my pet kitty will feast on Mousy..
-
paragraph one and two are EXAMPLES ONLY !! u dun have to answer that, obviously, u dun get what i mean... nvm...Originally posted by binZ:hmmm.. i dun understand para 1? cos the situation in the topic dun seems to match with tat? i dun think he will shout at people when he is moody or mad bah? i dun know~~ u to know, u to find out~~ u know him personally mah~~ u count the numbe rof times he shouted or scold u lor?
for para 2, i find it normal lah? it is just the matter u talk one to one with another friend only mah?it defeats the purpose of the forum if we cant put up topics to ask advice mah~ i think u can go hit the guy if he tell u he is mad becos of this!! dun tell him i say tat though~~ co im a gentlemen~ heh.. got an image to upkeep
para 3 is a bit tricky though? i think the tone of the words plays a great part~ (say by experts!) if one get too intimidating, insulting or sacarstic when u tease people, anyone will get mad bah? how do one know u are teasing or not if u sound like tat mah? right? its the same for people who jokes or tease people a lot.. ( those who have a laughing ring behind their words or tone) tat can be easily differenciate even the wrods seens bad mah.. something like tat? i dunno~~ im no expert~ must ask older people like bear~~
for para 4, yup.. it is good u are straight forward and trying to be honest.. but there are times one need to tell people tat u are serious before u say anything.. and also the hint utell people might not be obvious enough? there are poeple who needs to tell straight in the face, there are people which one can be more discreet?
example.. there was a certain day while we are chatting, a gd friend of mine keep bugging me about why i dun have a gf etc. he keep talking about oppturnities available to me, so on so for.. and he keep pushing it. i end it with "K(his name), bu yau zhai shuo ler.." (serious tone)
before he say anything again i say this, "wo zhai shuo tuo yi chi.. bu yau zhai shuo ler" tat abruptly end that conversation and we move to something else.. even now he will tease me evry now and then, but it nv get to the same point when he repeat it 10, 20 times in the same conversation.
im hungry~~~ i go eat first ler~~ wei.. where's my mod status?? trying to skip my question is it?? -.-"
para 5: no worries.. i always be there if u do need me! i told u tat before.
errrmmm.. dun let Gacky know about this k? or else i be roasted alive~~ hink i look much better alive and kicking right? i hope u think the same! heh.
some people dun tek jokes, u cant help it right? i can tek teasing from anyone but not this person coz the way he says it makes mi VERY uncomfortable... in msn u cant tel the person's tone, so ASSUME??? of course thats the oni way or by looking at smileys icon, but in the conversation i said" hahaha..not funny" CANT SEE I AM NOT APPRECIATING IT???! if u wan insist dan forget it..
and mi not being obvious enuff??? IT IS OBVIOUS WHEN I SAID "FREAKED" RIGHT?? dats why he is offended and BLAMED mi for that !!!! binz, do u know what u are talking here???? i've told him NUMEROUS TIMES that i dun like him to say these kinda thing, so this is the first tym i am soooooo straight forward with how i feel and it is really "freaked" !! WRONG???! ok, binz, u win lor...
End of discussion !! Closing this topic. -
Then who do u think HE was?Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:carpe diem jur is a gal!
Errr nvm... out of point.
I tink there's too much soap in ur brain.. flowing out of every orifice in ur body..