I really dun wan to complain here but kinda angry leh...
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Lolz.. muz admit Man U sux now.. though me fan.. haiz..Originally posted by carpe diem jur:hanor !! i should start behaving like a man...
somplain about things like:
DAMN !! MAN U LOSE TO ARSENAL AGAIN !!
hahar !!! LoLx !!
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A tinnie winnie bit.. poser nia..Originally posted by carpe diem jur:oouuuhhhh !! larling plays guitar??!! neber tel mi...
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nvm larling... i like....Originally posted by Gackt247:A tinnie winnie bit.. poser nia.. 
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yeah.. hes trying to flirt..
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waaah~~ sounds so bad!! u must be bad!Originally posted by carpe diem jur:can u all tel mi if I am wrong anot, or is it really my fault... be honest pls, pals...
Sarposed to meet GuyA for supper since we havent meet for long tym and i'm free today... So I asked him go coffeeshop so that i can haf some supper lah...
All of sudden I dont feel like going anymore coz of damn laziness, so I msned him and let him know that I'll meet him tomorrow lah...
he said...:
"tomorrow then..
just remember to give me a kiss as an apology.
if no kiss = one BOX on ur head. haha"
Woah lau, I'm so angry and pissed coz this is not the first tym he say this kinda thing liao lor... he is abit thick-skinned but i didnt say i am pretty until what lor... even mi ugly but friends oni leh !! No need say this kinda thing right??
So here's my reply:
"siao arh
hahaha... not funny..."
Obvious enuff that I am NOT appreciating that right??! Somemore he can add oil to fire..
He said:
"haha
kiss me only mah~~
tomorrow around 10pm then?
ok?"
SEE !! Ok... Cool... Breathe... Cool...
I said:
"i wil never do that lor
u dun freak mi out "
Honest mah !! What is wrong with that??! He cannot take it when he can joke or make fun of others and people cannot have the right to tell him straight off meh?? Got this kinda thing anot??! If he cannot accept mi being frank and direct, dan dun start this lah...
In the very beginning when I asked to meet him, he ALREADY knows that i am mending my heartache recently and i am already so upset liao, he thinks that I have time to play around with him for this kinda stuffs?? intention of meeting him is to pour sorrows lah coz he is considered a nice friend who listens when i am down and sharing a bit of advice... not to take for granted but i appreciates his presence, i juz dont like to joke this kinda thing with him coz of some reasons... last tym told him before that i dun like to joke about this kinda thingy with him... was hoping he understand but he doing it now again?? what is his intention??
He replied angrily:
"im not intersted in ur kiss lah. even if u say ok, i also need to consider wor. say until i care so much like tat. -.-"
Piangz !!!
Now I become bad person looking as if I am the one asking to kiss him !!
So I reprimated him:
"u started it first now u come blame mi... what is wrong with u??"
And he replied:
"i know. its only when u put the word "freak" i got pissed."
Make sense anot?? if now I go and threaten to stab someone, and that someone report police and say i threaten to stab him, i got angry and really go stab him... police ask mi why i said coz i threaten to stab is kidding oni and he reported police, dats why i got worked up and stab him for real !! (Of course this is juz an example lah...) so who started it?? of course the "kidding" one who started first right?? u wan threaten and wan to blame people for telling police, got this kinda thing anot??
He started this whole thing first and now say I provoked him and pissed by mi saying "freak" !!!??
Finally I buay tahan and exploded... I could have shouted at him right in the face if he is in front of mi...and mayb I'd also gif him a BIG TIGHT SLAP too !! (apologise... abit violent here... so now i say the slap i'm kidding oni, can?? does dis means he got no right to be angry if he sees this one day?? *shrugs
So I screamed (virtually) :
"dun u think that u saying that would freak mi out?? dan u dun start i wouldnt say that and u wun get pissed mah... or u think dis funny to joke about that?? ask urself why u do that in the first place? watever u say now i become the bad person to say the word freak first lah?! my fault? watever u say now i become the bad person to say the word "freak" first lah?! my fault? bb"
And I shut off my msn... Pals, tel mi !! If u tel mi i'm wrong, i will repent and sincerely apologise and accept my own fault... I cant think clearly now coz it juz happened...
woah lau... my heart very fragile now lor... i'm already having a broken heart liao and this have to happen??! Haiz...
heh.
On a more serious note..
everyone got their moods.. and problems.. it is the same for u or me.. it just tat all of us react differently to sitations at times..
For all u know, he might be used to scolding people more than being scolded?
if u are the guy.. im sure u wont appreciate someone telling u tat u dun feel like meeting up anymore after u waited for a while.. when u are free doesnt mean he is always free.. he might be tired after a hard day work? but he still make time for u when he knows and feels that u might have some problems? Not to mention he might have work or school early tomorrow.. Not everyone is able to get up so early like u, u know.. maybe u also need to understand him a bit bah.. being friends means tat there are times when one needs to accept each other's faults and what he or she is.. im sure he wont be angry with this de lah.. i cant say for sure about u though..
anyway girl! u start this forum and u nv make me a mod!!! so bad!! i want to be a mod leh!! so i can ban people like FI! waaaaahaaa~~~
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yo dude! long time no see!! u nv even say hi in msn de!Originally posted by Gackt247:A tinnie winnie bit.. poser nia.. 
too many girls to talk to? tats why bo chap me, right? 
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Originally posted by Camellias4me:
waah! u so fierce de?? like tat want to punch people liao! haha~~
He likes u & he's trying very hard.
If u'r not comfy, juz tell him to stop if he still respects u. Otherwise, juz ignore him. [b]Give it to him! [/b] -
Originally posted by carpe diem jur:
haha~~ no worries lah! im sure he likes u as much as i like u!
[b]i dun think he likes mi lah... not that kinda like thingy... mayb...
yeah ignoring him for tym being until he cools down i cools down and whole thing cools down... perhaps this is the oni alternative liao...
but i'm thinking do i need to apologise to him after it blows over?? i mean a friends thingy so that no more hard feelings... how???[/b] (hope Gacky wont kill me )
whats tat thingy! can tell me! i blur de~ -
waaah. someone got lots of experience leh!! bai ni wei shi~~ *offer wine to shi fu~ teach me all ur skills hao mah!Originally posted by laurence82:woah, i will get to know the gal b4 i decide whether its best to be cheeky
been 'cheeky' with many of my frens galfrens, and everyone pretty cool abt it...
the guy is a dumbarse not to back off when already told that its not funny..
but knowing the guy is cheeky gives no reason for fear...dont be scared... -
yo!! been some time!Originally posted by HENG@:actually babe dearie, i think both of u a bit too sensitive la. it ended up as an ego contest. relac n chill a bit la. he was joking to begin with(i think)
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and one last thing, Never Start Anything U Cannot Finish !!!Originally posted by binZ:waaah~~ sounds so bad!! u must be bad!
heh.
On a more serious note..
everyone got their moods.. and problems.. it is the same for u or me.. it just tat all of us react differently to sitations at times..
For all u know, he might be used to scolding people more than being scolded?
if u are the guy.. im sure u wont appreciate someone telling u tat u dun feel like meeting up anymore after u waited for a while.. when u are free doesnt mean he is always free.. he might be tired after a hard day work?
i have asked the person if he is angry if i dun mit him that day and he said "ok" !!!! i even apologise and asked wil he be angry and he said "no" !!!! u think i GOD arh, he dun wan to be honest dan wan blame mi for not knowing it meh????
but he still make time for u when he knows and feels that u might have some problems? Not to mention he might have work or school early tomorrow.. Not everyone is able to get up so early like u, u know.. maybe u also need to understand him a bit bah.. being friends means tat there are times when one needs to accept each other's faults and what he or she is..
yes, i accept this person for what he is and have told him about the teasing thing many times already since last tym... but does this person accepts mi for being frank about mi dislike this teasing from him??? i never try to change him, mind u !! i am juz asking him not to say these to mi, i dun bother if he go say to other gers, is it too much to ask for??? if u say lidat mean i trying to change him, dan fine lor, nothing to say... but if this person cannot accept mi be straight forward, isnt that trying to change mi also???
im sure he wont be angry with this de lah..
u sounded as if MY FAULT that HE WUN BE ANGRY WITH MI??? What have i done wrong???? i dun understand... u wanna enlighten mi anot??? people start teasing, i dun like and told him off, and now i have to wait for HIS forgiveness that he wun be angry with mi???!!
binz, pls gif mi gud reasonings that others have gave coz u are making mi sound as if i need his forgiveness?? so i am bad person to BE STRAIGHT FORWARD???!!!
i cant say for sure about u though..
anyway girl! u start this forum and u nv make me a mod!!! so bad!! i want to be a mod leh!! so i can ban people like FI! waaaaahaaa~~~
for example, if i insist wan go taiwan, i fail there and i am very sad, i come back to singapore, throw temper at everyone and scolded everyone, u think is fair?? this is an example oni lah, that means, i start it, i make sure i dun blame anyone else if it goes wrong in between... get what i mean??
another example, if i post this here and that person happens to see it and i said his doings made mi do this and is not of my wish, not fair right?? i mean if i post this and it offended him alot, made him very angry, dan i will admit is my fault coz i started this topic first and posted it first... of course in that case i will apologise sincerely for posting this.. i wil be responsible for starting this, i have tot over carefully before doing it lor... and my intention is to get some advise how wrong am i in this whole situation coz i'm confused... if he dun like i will delete and apologise, i wil bear responsibilities...
same thing, this person wan start teasing, he dun get the teasing back in return, and people told him off, instead he blamed the person for telling him off, fair anot? the questions to ask are: what is his intention? (yeah i agree with some of u guys' replies... thankx alot ya !!) lastly, can he tek it when it go wrong??
i am not perfect either, i have my flaws and tend to be unable to deal with responsibilities properly... i can oni try my best to learn how to handle responsibilities, though might never be the right way each tym... to err is human... i do not bear grudges against him or blame him, coz i shouted (virtually) at him too, which i flared my temper first... i will show my true self when it comes to friends, i dun think i should pretend that i can beat around the bush when it comes to things i consider alittle serious... it is no virtue about being frank and honest, so is it juz a weapon to get hurt afterall?? or i should be fake to this friend in order to avoid arguements with him??
anyway, binz, thank Q for coming around... -
Its just a little teasing gone far.. to be frank both of you went too far.. him for overdoing the teasing part and you for virtually shouting at him -
dun think its ur fault
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yes, i admit i am wrong for getting too worked up towards a friend... i'd apologise if i wasnt accused of being the one at fault for getting worked up... i feel unjustice also for being blamed saying the word "freaked"...Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Its just a little teasing gone far.. to be frank both of you went too far.. him for overdoing the teasing part and you for virtually shouting at him
anyway, i'd apologise to a friend but if he cannot accept mi being so straight forward, i'm sure in future there are alot of arguements again... i will avoid arguing as much as he would but mayb the friendship will stray... i cant predict how it'll turn out... of course i wun wish to turn out lidat... i dunno... what do u think? -
tsk... is ratty fault lor... hee hee...Originally posted by RaTtY81:dun think its ur fault -
ok if tis can make u better i take the blameOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:tsk... is ratty fault lor... hee hee... -
Well this is just me but if I quarrel with a fren, I normally try to resolve it asap.. and try to get into talking terms with that fren... I normally wont think too much about it or what might happen in the future and all that, life is too short to be spent worrying
Anyway, just a suggestion, perhaps you can thrash things out with him one day, maybe get the message across once and for all but perhaps not aggressively for issues on pride.. of course that is if you regard him as a very good fren la.. just my opinion -
ok...understood... now waiting to say what binz reply my quote to him... coz am keen to hear from him also for his honest views...will hope to get this settled too instead of blabbering here, it doesnt help also...Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Well this is just me but if I quarrel with a fren, I normally try to resolve it asap.. and try to get into talking terms with that fren... I normally wont think too much about it or what might happen in the future and all that, life is too short to be spent worrying
Anyway, just a suggestion, perhaps you can thrash things out with him one day, maybe get the message across once and for all but perhaps not aggressively for issues on pride.. of course that is if you regard him as a very good fren la.. just my opinion
thank Q !! DriftingGuy...!! -
no prob... anyway its just my biased opinionsOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:ok...understood... now waiting to say what binz reply my quote to him... coz am keen to hear from him also for his honest views...will hope to get this settled too instead of blabbering here, it doesnt help also...
thank Q !! DriftingGuy...!! -
cannot lah... wo bu she de mah... no lah, i'm not angry le... juz wanna hear binz point of view for what i replied him...Originally posted by RaTtY81:ok if tis can make u better i take the blame -
Originally posted by carpe diem jur:cannot lah... wo bu she de mah... no lah, i'm not angry le... juz wanna hear binz point of view for what i replied him...
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no i seriously dun think u are being baised... u are not close to mi or that person, thats why u can gif mi "dui shi bu dui ren" point of views which i really appreciate it alot...Originally posted by DriftingGuy:no prob... anyway its just my biased opinions -
Originally posted by RaTtY81:
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yah...he is jus teasing u la.....releax la..ok!
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hi progene !! yeah i've cool off le... u cant get angry with a friend for long and after that it'll become alittle sad that this happened... haiz... humans are strange sometyms..Originally posted by progene:yah...he is jus teasing u la.....releax la..ok!