I really dun wan to complain here but kinda angry leh...
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can u all tel mi if I am wrong anot, or is it really my fault... be honest pls, pals...
Sarposed to meet GuyA for supper since we havent meet for long tym and i'm free today... So I asked him go coffeeshop so that i can haf some supper lah...
All of sudden I dont feel like going anymore coz of damn laziness, so I msned him and let him know that I'll meet him tomorrow lah...
he said...:
"tomorrow then..
just remember to give me a kiss as an apology.
if no kiss = one BOX on ur head. haha"
Woah lau, I'm so angry and pissed coz this is not the first tym he say this kinda thing liao lor... he is abit thick-skinned but i didnt say i am pretty until what lor... even mi ugly but friends oni leh !! No need say this kinda thing right??
So here's my reply:
"siao arh
hahaha... not funny..."
Obvious enuff that I am NOT appreciating that right??! Somemore he can add oil to fire..
He said:
"haha
kiss me only mah~~
tomorrow around 10pm then?
ok?"
SEE !! Ok... Cool... Breathe... Cool...
I said:
"i wil never do that lor
u dun freak mi out "
Honest mah !! What is wrong with that??! He cannot take it when he can joke or make fun of others and people cannot have the right to tell him straight off meh?? Got this kinda thing anot??! If he cannot accept mi being frank and direct, dan dun start this lah...
In the very beginning when I asked to meet him, he ALREADY knows that i am mending my heartache recently and i am already so upset liao, he thinks that I have time to play around with him for this kinda stuffs?? intention of meeting him is to pour sorrows lah coz he is considered a nice friend who listens when i am down and sharing a bit of advice... not to take for granted but i appreciates his presence, i juz dont like to joke this kinda thing with him coz of some reasons... last tym told him before that i dun like to joke about this kinda thingy with him... was hoping he understand but he doing it now again?? what is his intention??
He replied angrily:
"im not intersted in ur kiss lah. even if u say ok, i also need to consider wor. say until i care so much like tat. -.-"
Piangz !!!
Now I become bad person looking as if I am the one asking to kiss him !!
So I reprimated him:
"u started it first now u come blame mi... what is wrong with u??"
And he replied:
"i know. its only when u put the word "freak" i got pissed."
Make sense anot?? if now I go and threaten to stab someone, and that someone report police and say i threaten to stab him, i got angry and really go stab him... police ask mi why i said coz i threaten to stab is kidding oni and he reported police, dats why i got worked up and stab him for real !! (Of course this is juz an example lah...) so who started it?? of course the "kidding" one who started first right?? u wan threaten and wan to blame people for telling police, got this kinda thing anot??
He started this whole thing first and now say I provoked him and pissed by mi saying "freak" !!!??
Finally I buay tahan and exploded... I could have shouted at him right in the face if he is in front of mi...and mayb I'd also gif him a BIG TIGHT SLAP too !! (apologise... abit violent here... so now i say the slap i'm kidding oni, can?? does dis means he got no right to be angry if he sees this one day?? *shrugs
So I screamed (virtually) :
"dun u think that u saying that would freak mi out?? dan u dun start i wouldnt say that and u wun get pissed mah... or u think dis funny to joke about that?? ask urself why u do that in the first place? watever u say now i become the bad person to say the word freak first lah?! my fault? watever u say now i become the bad person to say the word "freak" first lah?! my fault? bb"
And I shut off my msn... Pals, tel mi !! If u tel mi i'm wrong, i will repent and sincerely apologise and accept my own fault... I cant think clearly now coz it juz happened...
woah lau... my heart very fragile now lor... i'm already having a broken heart liao and this have to happen??! Haiz... -
Duhzzz..Relax la,some guys are just cheeky..They just like teasing..
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i know teasing is fine... have told him i dun like "teasing around" with him... coz of some reasons la..Originally posted by stellazio:Duhzzz..Relax la,some guys are just cheeky..They just like teasing..
but some seems to get nasty or make themselves look like victim when they do not get the "teasing" back... is this his ego or what?? -
it happens...
it just goes to show they have fragile egos and are immature...
don't worry about it...
maybe keep him on the "blocked" list for a while? -
Can be avoided one la,he tease you..Just don't care,get on with the conversation and soon he won't talk about it liao..Originally posted by carpe diem jur:i know teasing is fine... have told him i dun like "teasing around" with him... coz of some reasons la..
but some seems to get nasty or make themselves look like victim when they do not get the "teasing" back... is this his ego or what?? -
never block lor... i dun think anyone need the "purnishment" of being blocked...Originally posted by the Bear:it happens...
it just goes to show they have fragile egos and are immature...
don't worry about it...
maybe keep him on the "blocked" list for a while?
bear... do i need to feel bad for my behaviour towards him?? or am i getting to emotional and sensitive??
i kinda explode really badly and might have hurt him... now come to think of it, if is friends, i shouldnt virtually shout at him right?? But i juz feel unfairness when he say until like he is victim lor...
bear gif mi honest comments... like i've said, i am a very straight-forward person, i enjoy people being straight to mi too... -
u know there was once (not i bear gruges against him but it happened to affect mi lor) he did the same thing too and he never stop grumbling that i owe him a kiss and a movie (i din promise him movie hor, he add it on himself!!)... he said kiss coz i couldnt meet him coz of my busy sch schedule, and he himself said i owe him kiss !!!Originally posted by stellazio:Can be avoided one la,he tease you..Just don't care,get on with the conversation and soon he won't talk about it liao..
dan it went on for weeks, everytym can meet him for coffee liao he would start mentioning about the kiss thingy and movie !! lidat how to make mi feel at ease gg out with a friend who keep wanting to remind mi tat I OWE HIM....
stress leh... once or twice, fine... but is it too much?? -
i believe in courtesy to a lady...
when advances are made like that and a lady does not like it, it is time to back off.. and offer sincere apologies...
but that's me...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:never block lor... i dun think anyone need the "purnishment" of being blocked...
bear... do i need to feel bad for my behaviour towards him?? or am i getting to emotional and sensitive??
i kinda explode really badly and might have hurt him... now come to think of it, if is friends, i shouldnt virtually shout at him right?? But i juz feel unfairness when he say until like he is victim lor...
bear gif mi honest comments... like i've said, i am a very straight-forward person, i enjoy people being straight to mi too... -
He likes u & he's trying very hard.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:u know there was once (not i bear gruges against him but it happened to affect mi lor) he did the same thing too and he never stop grumbling that i owe him a kiss and a movie (i din promise him movie hor, he add it on himself!!)... he said kiss coz i couldnt meet him coz of my busy sch schedule, and he himself said i owe him kiss !!!
dan it went on for weeks, everytym can meet him for coffee liao he would start mentioning about the kiss thingy and movie !! lidat how to make mi feel at ease gg out with a friend who keep wanting to remind mi tat I OWE HIM....
stress leh... once or twice, fine... but is it too much??
If u'r not comfy, juz tell him to stop if he still respects u. Otherwise, juz ignore him. Give it to him!
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i dun think he likes mi lah... not that kinda like thingy... mayb...Originally posted by Camellias4me:He likes u & he's trying very hard.
If u'r not comfy, juz tell him to stop if he still respects u. Otherwise, juz ignore him. Give it to him!
yeah ignoring him for tym being until he cools down i cools down and whole thing cools down... perhaps this is the oni alternative liao...
but i'm thinking do i need to apologise to him after it blows over?? i mean a friends thingy so that no more hard feelings... how??? -
If u felt dat there's a need to apologise for blowing up, do let him noe it is becoz u didn't feel gd when he constantly irritates. Hopefully he understands dat his way of 'joking' isn't funny & pray dat he stops being irritating?Originally posted by carpe diem jur:i dun think he likes mi lah... not that kinda like thingy... mayb...
yeah ignoring him for tym being until he cools down i cools down and whole thing cools down... perhaps this is the oni alternative liao...
but i'm thinking do i need to apologise to him after it blows over?? i mean a friends thingy so that no more hard feelings... how???
Relac lah gal!
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woah, i will get to know the gal b4 i decide whether its best to be cheeky
been 'cheeky' with many of my frens galfrens, and everyone pretty cool abt it...
the guy is a dumbarse not to back off when already told that its not funny..
but knowing the guy is cheeky gives no reason for fear...dont be scared...
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Relax larling.. together now.. breeeeeeathe innnnnn slooooooowly... breeeeeeathe ouuuuut.. Better? Aiyo.. dun get agitated over such stuff ya.
But larling like so cute when pissed..
with other guys of course. -
i wonder what will carpe says if other gals call gackt larling also..
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actually babe dearie, i think both of u a bit too sensitive la. it ended up as an ego contest. relac n chill a bit la. he was joking to begin with(i think)
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Originally posted by laurence82:i wonder what will carpe says if other gals call gackt larling also..
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k lah... mi real cool liao... cannot start whimming so much like an annoying lil' ger... (no, i'm not saying lil' gers are annoying... no stereotype lah..)
i think...better to remind him again if chat with him next tym and i MUST keep my cooool.... breatheee.... hehe !!
thank Q pals !! really thank Q very much !!! -
yeah i think i was too sensitive too, and kinda harsh to a friend...Originally posted by HENG@:actually babe dearie, i think both of u a bit too sensitive la. it ended up as an ego contest. relac n chill a bit la. he was joking to begin with(i think)
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cheer up babe. happens to us all the time. *hugz*Originally posted by carpe diem jur:yeah i think i was too sensitive too, and kinda harsh to a friend... -
hahar !! yeah... *hugx*Originally posted by HENG@:cheer up babe. happens to us all the time. *hugz* -
Oi..Originally posted by laurence82:i wonder what will carpe says if other gals call gackt larling also..
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Yea.. juz dun be too feisty ya..Originally posted by HENG@:actually babe dearie, i think both of u a bit too sensitive la. it ended up as an ego contest. relac n chill a bit la. he was joking to begin with(i think) -
hanor !! i should start behaving like a man...Originally posted by Gackt247:Yea.. juz dun be too feisty ya..
complain about things like:
DAMN !! MAN U LOSE TO ARSENAL AGAIN !!
hahar !!! LoLx !! -
Talking abt feisty. I juz finished cursing n swearing @#%$%&^%&^*& after knocking my foot against my guitar in the dark. Imagine if it was an expensive guitar.. duno which hurts more?
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oouuuhhhh !! larling plays guitar??!! neber tel mi...Originally posted by Gackt247:Talking abt feisty. I juz finished cursing n swearing @#%$%&^%&^*& after knocking my foot against my guitar in the dark. Imagine if it was an expensive guitar.. duno which hurts more?