I am a sex addict - please help

• Albenfrancis

  11 Nov 14, 10:09

  Dera Agony Aunt,

  I'm 42, male, good looking, decent built, exercise regulary, clean, neatly groomed and living in Singapore. But that is not my problem :-)

  My problem is :

  1. Majority of the day I dream of sex 
  2. I currently have regular sex with 4 different women
  3. I've had sexual encounters with men too
  4. I've explored group sex
  5. I'm fairly regular with prostitutes, especially at Geylang
  6. I'm a regular contributor to the sex group of this forum :-)
     
  7. I'm always on the look out for more sexual partners
  8. I still masturbate whenever I am horny
  9. I still watch porn (outside Singapore lah)
  10. I have had numerous sexual one night stands (lost count)

  WHAT DO I DO?

  Actually none of the above bothers me cause I still do my job and spend lots of time with my family.

  So now you see my problem? My problem is I dont know what to do?

  Please help & advice.

  Thanks,

   

   

   

• "newbie"

  11 Nov 14, 11:41

  maybe a hammer can do something for you

• Langfeng123

  11 Nov 14, 15:13

  oh my god!

   

  [email protected]

   

  you can see some good ...

• Albenfrancis

  11 Nov 14, 15:57

  @ Newbie - hammer? hmmmm maybe not

  @ Langfeng123 - you want me to email you?

   

• veron soh

  11 Nov 14, 19:02

  See a doctor,get a hormone reducing drug...or else one day,you will rape innocent victim,& goes behind bars+backside open 'flowers'.

• FireIce

  11 Nov 14, 19:10

  u have the right how to live ur life

• jojobeach

  12 Nov 14, 00:18

  Your problem is ignorance.

  If only you know how sexually transmitted diseases are passed.

  Please make sure to get a blood test every 6 months for STDs.

  Many sexually active people arn't even aware they are carrying STDs.

  Viruses are transmitted via body fluids. Condoms are not 100% effective against STDs. 

   

   

   

   

   

   

• Albenfrancis

  12 Nov 14, 14:35

  Thank you all for your advice.

• SQ876

  12 Nov 14, 15:21

  Is it true?

  Talk to your wife. Sex with her more

• HKGG

  12 Nov 14, 21:41

  So, uh... What's the problem here?

• Albenfrancis

  13 Nov 14, 10:24

  @ HKGG - yes every word I said is 100% true.

  By the way, I loved FireIce & your advice the best !!!!!!

  Thanks :-)

• VampireDamon

  15 Nov 14, 16:24

  I think I have a same problem....

• VampireDamon

  15 Nov 14, 16:30

  but I dont have so many girl to sex with me......

• nyok7

  16 Nov 14, 02:11

  thats good :)

• Albenfrancis

  17 Nov 14, 09:01

  Hi VampireDamon - look at the best advice I recd from HKGG & FireIce

  bro !!

• RoseMonroe

  3 Dec 14, 14:50

  See a therapist? The most important thing is still the priority on your health; don't let your family suffer from your pleasures outside!

• Malu Siao

  5 Dec 14, 22:06

  Go for HIV test immediately...then talk later.

• Albenfrancis

  8 Dec 14, 08:55

  @ Malu Siao - HIV negative so can talk now? :-)

• OneDesire.sg

  19 Dec 14, 00:13

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• Iced.latte12

  22 Dec 14, 12:22

  Hi Albenfrancis,

  I used to have similar problems too. But, until one of my regular partners told me she had discharge at her private area Gonorrhoea last month...

  I am so stress up. Paranoid! I suspected I might got that too. I did a full STD and HIV testing at an Annonmious HIV Screening Clinic at Dr Tan and Partners in Robertson Walk.

  My first test is clear. NO STD and HIV. But I need to go back for another test 3 months later. Because of the window period.

  So no I dont share you problems. When I am thinking of having FUN, I would rather jerk with my hands. 

   

• Qingfeng iii

  25 Dec 14, 00:38

  h ii

• Kastayluo

  25 Dec 14, 09:48

  OH MY HOLY SHIT

• Jerry Kok Lim

  25 Dec 14, 09:56

  SEX is good 

   

  enjoy

• Luvmax

  5 Jan 15, 05:27

  A good test of addiction is to see whether you can stop having sex for a few weeks.

  If you cannot, then it is good to seek help.  Because once you are out of control, your professional and family lives can be negatively affected.

• Doyen.socialescorts

  12 Jan 15, 22:47

  Stop chasing the high. Look for an alternative release.