Some guys are like tat... He is not really to be blamed, after years of marriage, guy tends to get bored over having the same sex partner over the years. However, at times new lingerie or even toys might add in abit of spice to married couples, majority of men are more into lingerie fetishes... Not to the extend of being perverted that kind, juzt appreciating the piece of art on their lover's body turn them on better. And do remember, it doesnt mean that he dont love you, it's just one of those obstacles married couple have to go through.... If he doesnt appreciate it on you, im sure someone else will