Taking too long to come..

• iSpeak

  24 Aug 07, 21:59

  Hi. I'm a guy and I sort of have the very opposite of a premature ejaculation problem. I suffer from delayed ejaculation.
  
  I wanna know what causes this and are there any ways to overcome this problem? I've been pretty sexually active with my gf but I never can seem to come even with a pretty hard erection and some strenuous action. I don't have erectile problems btw - I get turned on easily and it stays rock hard. Just that I can't get the juice out.
  
  I can only pinpoint a few :
  
  1. Performance anxiety - I think too much about having an orgasm and I lose sight of it.
  
  2. Poor sex? Me and my girl aren't very experienced.. we get turned on but don't quite know how to go with the flow naturally and how to finish it off.
  
  I know that some of you may think it's a blessing to last long and I used to think until it has become a form of sexual frustration for me not to be able to achieve "release".
  
  
• pervertboi

  24 Aug 07, 22:00

  guys will seek ur advice instead...
• sunny6110

  24 Aug 07, 22:01

  orh hor~~
  
  ur stamina oso no gd...
  
  change ur mentality can le
• sEphIrOth

  25 Aug 07, 00:19

  if u seek medical help i think they can help
• FireIce

  25 Aug 07, 00:21

  try different positions
• sir sickolot II

  25 Aug 07, 00:31

  experiment by yourself as to what makes you tick.. then once you got a good idea what makes you go over the roof, teach your gal.
  
  cheers
• mancha

  25 Aug 07, 00:51

  Relax, do it lying down.
  
  Third round takes longer, fourth even longer.
  
  Doing it every day also will cause you to pump and pump to no avail.
  
  Too much lubrication also not good.
  
  Doing heavy mental work, like mathematics, playing sudoku, or programming software will leave an after effect, like what you mention.
  
  Abstain for a few days, will usually set matters right.
• sg mata

  25 Aug 07, 01:24

  maybe u got sum medical problem??
• Prophecy_Master

  25 Aug 07, 16:32

  Originally posted by iSpeak:

  Hi. I'm a guy and I sort of have the very opposite of a premature ejaculation problem. I suffer from delayed ejaculation.
  
  I wanna know what causes this and are there any ways to overcome this problem? I've been pretty sexually active with my gf but I never can seem to come even with a pretty hard erection and some strenuous action. I don't have erectile problems btw - I get turned on easily and it stays rock hard. Just that I can't get the juice out.
  
  I can only pinpoint a few :
  
  1. Performance anxiety - I think too much about having an orgasm and I lose sight of it.
  
  2. Poor sex? Me and my girl aren't very experienced.. we get turned on but don't quite know how to go with the flow naturally and how to finish it off.
  
  I know that some of you may think it's a blessing to last long and I used to think until it has become a form of sexual frustration for me not to be able to achieve "release".
  
  

  in your case, u can try following your own pace,
  
  normal guys cum quite quickly, so we need to distract ourself to last "longer"
  
  for you, u just shoot when ever u feel like, don't think about the duration, just do it. doing it without condom helps
• yiha093

  25 Aug 07, 21:05

  ur gf hole veri loose isit?
  or u not fast enuff or big enuuff?
• eviljustice

  26 Aug 07, 08:17

  hmm. yeah.. do w/o condoms will be better. but it u all are still young. not planning for marriage, den use those ultra thin condom better.
• CoolMyth

  26 Aug 07, 08:28

  Peharps also your make-out sessions have been always the same routine, thus no excitement and thus the mind not simulated enough.
  
  Read from somewhere one.
• de_middle

  27 Aug 07, 09:08

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Peharps also your make-out sessions have been always the same routine, thus no excitement and thus the mind not simulated enough.
  
  Read from somewhere one.

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