This Good Good Gal and Its Just Me..
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Its been a long time since we met...
i was outstationed and its about 5 days to a month.. i really missed her and she too.. missed me.
She waited for me at my block staircase and we hugged each other and kissed.. we were both so happy.
The next day, after shopping with my family, she cried..
saying that i spend most of the money on my family..
I knew she would bring up the topic again.. sighed..
Her face changed when i picked a bottle of supplement for my mum..
It was the extra big one cost around $70 and the small one cost $42..
I didn't know it was so serious.. maybe i delayed in giving her the money to save.. i dun know why this time..
she cried and cried and never tell me what happened.
It was only then afrer some persuasion, she said she was very upset coz her relative keep asking when she keeping married and she could not reply.. and she also said after 3 years i have nothing.. no car, no money, no house! how to give her happiness?? She also reprimanded me for not supporting her to do eye surgey and face mole removal.. i protest coz its all for her own good.
Later did i realise that her happiness is only car, money and house!
I was frustrated by her remarks and say ya go find a richer guy or something..
she left the house and i ignored her...
Today i waited for her to finished work but i didnt goto her workplace..
i keep reading my magazine and having my phone on my left hand, hoping that she will call me.. but to no avail.
She sms me . . in my eyes she only see that i care about my family and not her.. and she said that I didn't care about her when we go out and didn't care about her what she did in my house.. and she also emphasised that i do not love her much anymore coz of last time incident..Gosh! do i have to tell her i intend to buy a diamond ring and propose to her on a star cruise????? I replied her if she wants to think that way then i can't help..
Looks like the relationship is really expiring soon...
I was losing faith
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this is episode wat liao?
anyway..........here's a hug for u
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eh, this title very familiar.
i think i saw it b4 not long, lazy to search.
same author?? -
Episode... ??Originally posted by FireIce:this is episode wat liao?
anyway..........here's a hug for u
maybe its the last ...
thanks for the hugz
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Gosh bro is time to do something! dun wait till she runaway then regret...
Put down your pride and bravefront and propose to her and tell her that how much she means to you and how much you love her.
You can actually try putting yourself into her shoe. Of cos gals need someone who can actually support her in terms of emotional and financial... This is the type of "Sercurity" that gals want now... If you're unable to give her that kinda feeling then how are you going to take care of her and your own children/family in the near future?
So just do it and show her that you're able to take care of her and she'll definitely give you the support.
All the best and good luck to you
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ya, same author...Originally posted by Cool-gal:eh, this title very familiar.
i think i saw it b4 not long, lazy to search.
same author?? -
The fact that i do not love her so much as before is a stated fact that we both knew and we didn't spell out... Its a unwritten rule to our relationship... i really want to forget the wrong she did to me and all the things she did to me in the past. On second thoughts, it really made me very upset too.Originally posted by EvilPorkChop:Gosh bro is time to do something! dun wait till she runaway then regret...
Put down your pride and bravefront and propose to her and tell her that how much she means to you and how much you love her.
You can actually try putting yourself into her shoe. Of cos gals need someone who can actually support her in terms of emotional and financial... This is the type of "Sercurity" that gals want now... If you're unable to give her that kinda feeling then how are you going to take care of her and your own children/family in the near future?
So just do it and show her that you're able to take care of her and she'll definitely give you the support.
All the best and good luck to you -
tell her lah... even without surgery and mole removal, u still love her...
wat more she want... -
Both of us have come to a stage where
a simple thing as she described difficult to fulfill
such as
->watching a movie together
->shopping and going out together..
perhaps every sunday, its family day where my parents and we go out together and at before 9pm has to send grandma back home.
But sat, i all spent with her... what elsE? -
i told her but she keep insisting that i didn't support her...Originally posted by Father Lim:tell her lah... even without surgery and mole removal, u still love her...
wat more she want...
Its not the money matters... it just i dun want her to go under the laser and have a chance of side effect in near future or in later stage of life.
about the mole removal... she saw the road side removal at $5 per mole.. I told her to go to a better acclamied doctor or so.. $50 also nevermind but ...sighed..
anyway, thank you for the reply -
if according to your one sided story then fcuk her lah, ask her go fly kite!!! what support her in terms of emotional and financial... This is the type of "Sercurity" that gals want now...???? if thats the case then might as well go find a PRC, you'll still need to support her in terms of emotional and financial... but.... at least PRC would fcuk better any day!!!
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nightyoung, i honestly think that u made the right decision, they are plenty of nice girls out there, take your time and let fate takes you on a journey u 'll never forget!
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why in bar
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Yo dude, this remind me of myself when i wanted to cheat money from boy.Originally posted by nightyoung:Its been a long time since we met...
i was outstationed and its about 5 days to a month.. i really missed her and she too.. missed me.
She waited for me at my block staircase and we hugged each other and kissed.. we were both so happy.
The next day, after shopping with my family, she cried..
saying that i spend most of the money on my family..
I knew she would bring up the topic again.. sighed..
Her face changed when i picked a bottle of supplement for my mum..
It was the extra big one cost around $70 and the small one cost $42..
I didn't know it was so serious.. maybe i delayed in giving her the money to save.. i dun know why this time..
she cried and cried and never tell me what happened.
It was only then afrer some persuasion, she said she was very upset coz her relative keep asking when she keeping married and she could not reply.. and she also said after 3 years i have nothing.. no car, no money, no house! how to give her happiness?? She also reprimanded me for not supporting her to do eye surgey and face mole removal.. i protest coz its all for her own good.
Later did i realise that her happiness is only car, money and house!
I was frustrated by her remarks and say ya go find a richer guy or something..
she left the house and i ignored her...
Today i waited for her to finished work but i didnt goto her workplace..
i keep reading my magazine and having my phone on my left hand, hoping that she will call me.. but to no avail.
She sms me . . in my eyes she only see that i care about my family and not her.. and she said that I didn't care about her when we go out and didn't care about her what she did in my house.. and she also emphasised that i do not love her much anymore coz of last time incident..Gosh! do i have to tell her i intend to buy a diamond ring and propose to her on a star cruise????? I replied her if she wants to think that way then i can't help..
Looks like the relationship is really expiring soon...
I was losing faith -
we had no sms .. no call and no contact after what had happened yesterday and life for me was in a storm season..
very sad and upset but cant do much and still have to work and life lives on..
is there a second chance? Will i love her the same way as before?
Maybe she can meet some nice guy out there to marry her next year..and go tour with her.. cinema and shopping..
i thought.. and pondered -
Drop her,cut your lose and hope on another horse.
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No need to remind us of ur sellout acheivementOriginally posted by angel7030:Yo dude, this remind me of myself when i wanted to cheat money from boy. -
... material girl...
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Maybe it's really the time to sit back and think if this girl is for you.
Marriage is for a lifetime.
If she's not the type of woman who will manage the family well with you together... then I guess you can skip her.
Buck up! Get yourself a better future.
Uhm, and maybe you should really try to start saving up for your wedding expenses! It's really tough if you got not much in the account ...
And the way how your ex (I assume so since both of you are not in contact since then) reacted towards your money matters... is it cos of her background that led her to such a behaviour? And maybe her relatives were really driving her crazy by asking what does her bf (you) do for a living and etc etc etc.. We are just outsiders ... so what we can only say is ..
Be happy!!
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oh, for one moment thought I was on the wrong forum, thot this is AA.
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sibeh zai. this thread duno longer than the show zhen qing anot
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Oh thanks, dude.Originally posted by boka:No need to remind us of ur sellout acheivement -
why nt in AA sia, bar will return weird replies sometimes
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Nearly the fourth year.
Many lasts, but still not done yet.
Marathon! -
better think carefully abt this matter.......