Originally posted by amuletgurl:but wat im saying is,from understanding other ppl's success,u will realise that u can do it too n hence be a better person....im not talking abt comparison but at least it will make u realise u can aim n achieve ur dreams just like how others achieved theirs....![]()
Originally posted by amuletgurl:but wat im saying is,from understanding other ppl's success,u will realise that u can do it too n hence be a better person....im not talking abt comparison but at least it will make u realise u can aim n achieve ur dreams just like how others achieved theirs....![]()
Originally posted by Parka:Just be yourself.
If you want to compare, there are millions of people out there who can be better than you one way or another. At the end of the day, you will just die from the mental exhaustion of comparing.
Nothing is wrong!!! but u can make things better!!!! can start wif body image,u can change that! then abt ambition,luck,blah blah,that can be dealt later,but the important thing is to have self confidence 1st...then u can proceed to work towards ur dreamsOriginally posted by the_don:haiz.. i am wondering what is it that they got (drive? ambition? luck? looks?) and if they have to give up anything to achieve all these. it seems so easy for those around me to have a good life. frens who are dating date guys who can provide for them. frens who are married marry guys who drive sports cars or can pay for stuff up front in cash ( had a gal fren's hubby who paid their renovation in cash ) haizzzzzzz...... wat the heel is wrong with meeeeee
Originally posted by FireIce:i dont relli care
she might not be as happy as i am, with the simple life im leading.....
or she might jus die tml......u know......
Originally posted by the_don:haiz.. i am wondering what is it that they got (drive? ambition? luck? looks?) and if they have to give up anything to achieve all these. it seems so easy for those around me to have a good life. frens who are dating date guys who can provide for them. frens who are married marry guys who drive sports cars or can pay for stuff up front in cash ( had a gal fren's hubby who paid their renovation in cash ) haizzzzzzz...... wat the heel is wrong with meeeeee
Originally posted by amuletgurl:Nothing is wrong!!! but u can make things better!!!! can start wif body image,u can change that! then abt ambition,luck,blah blah,that can be dealt later,but the important thing is to have self confidence 1st...then u can proceed to work towards ur dreams
Originally posted by Parka:Anything is possible in this world. Anything.
It's just the extend you have to go to achieve all this. Do you even want to go to the extreme?
if i go to Brisbane,i will ask u to work out wif me,coz...i've gained liao....Originally posted by the_don:haiz i guess u are right. this self confidence thing is bugging me. pple around me all think that i am this bubbly cheerful carefree confident loud gal. what they don't know is that all is just a facade and i am tormented with so many demons everyday. even my bf thinks that way..........
Originally posted by FireIce:there has to be differences....or inequality, as some might view it.....
if eberyone oso the same....go thru same education, work same job, live same life......life would be so boring and meaningless....
but comparison might not be a good thing oso.....
it's good to be motivated
but over-comparison will lead to inferiority and morally depressed
Originally posted by laurence82:Climb higher, fall harder...![]()
Originally posted by amuletgurl:if i go to Brisbane,i will ask u to work out wif me,coz...i've gained liao....,then we can go shopping together ar...
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Originally posted by the Bear:some are driven to go somewhere..
some are just happy with the ride...
some are just happy to be where they are..
an old tv series said it best.. ye she ping fan ye shi yi zhong xing fu...
"perhaps being ordinary is also a kind of blessing..."
be happy with who you are... what the world thinks is immaterial because you can't please everyone...
Nay, air need not to be really fresher up there...dont u see posers always lift their nose up the air..psychologically, they are screaming for breathing space...kekekkeOriginally posted by the_don:climb higher see farther, air fresher, fall down die faster?
Originally posted by Estee:zhi zhu chang le.
haiz.. trying .... thanksOriginally posted by duotiga83:well..at least you know where you are now and aim for whats you want in the future. As most ppl said, don't just compare ppl to much, just be youself, things will come by as days go by...
cheers