Wad's catholic mass? I m protestant. Dunno abt that.
Originally posted by vince69:
yes, conflicts and problem, we will have and continue to have, its how we deal with these that help us grow.however, there are things that can be dealt with, before it becomes a problem/conflict, these should be delt with, very fast.
as for outsider, ... love is blind... sometime, these "outsider" meant well when they raise this alarm (maybe, they need training on communication skill, haha)...
anyway... good to discuss this with you, Unker...
i have seen people who assume that those in such situation are blinded by love... and decidely to play kaypoh chee....
even in my church, one time, a pastor disagreed with the matching out of two people and keep questioning why they are together...mind you, these two are Christians....
this pastor started to pass negative remarks on them.... so go figure.... why do people do such things.... why do we assume we know better....?
actually if i remember correctly, when i courted my wife, there are some people not happy, because my wife was not even 18.....
we make choices, we bear the consequences of these choices, nobody should interfere.
Originally posted by -StarDust-:Wad's catholic mass? I m protestant. Dunno abt that.
i suggest you read up more on comparative religion..... Catholic Mass.... like worship service lah.
im chinese and she is chinese. i think its ok
Originally posted by Chin Eng:i have seen people who assume that those in such situation are blinded by love... and decidely to play kaypoh chee....
even in my church, one time, a pastor disagreed with the matching out of two people and keep questioning why they are together...mind you, these two are Christians....
this pastor started to pass negative remarks on them.... so go figure.... why do people do such things.... why do we assume we know better....?
actually if i remember correctly, when i courted my wife, there are some people not happy, because my wife was not even 18.....
we make choices, we bear the consequences of these choices, nobody should interfere.
Unker Chin Eng, can post more of your courtship stories? how old were you when you started chasing your wifey?
Who made the first move?
Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:
Unker Chin Eng, can post more of your courtship stories? how old were you when you started chasing your wifey?Who made the first move?
u can go to Chin Eng's blog to read.
Honeybunz... don't anyhow say.... i got no blog...
Originally posted by Chin Eng:Honeybunz... don't anyhow say.... i got no blog...
after i read all of your comments, i think its ok then. no need to convert
Originally posted by Vanilla cake:after i read all of your comments, i think its ok then. no need to convert
Yah lar. It's essential to have faith before converting. You dont convert to find gf or gals.
Wrong motive is bad.
it's ok.. to go church to find gals.. if God willing he may even give you a good gal.. as life partner.. haha..
The most impt is to treasure the relationship in a christ like manner (if you are christians).. how to find in church?? easy join church grps such as choir (pretend to like to sing lah!!)
If you like one.. dun be "kan cheong spider" as they say let it flow naturally.. talk normally.. be a bit "concern" abt her..You will know you like her if she didn't turn up for practise.. yr heart "flutter" you know you like her..
she will know if you are after her.. they have 6th sense.. you know.. they can feel it.. ! dun believe ask yr sister or mum..
go easy 1st and if ask her out later .. she may resist you and say no.. the word is "perserve" (maybe testing you or ask you to work harder to woo her)
If after many rds of asking if ..no luck.. then "cool' off for a while.. maybe not ready.. or maybe she has a steady..
Good luck to all guys out there..
are they good in bed?
Originally posted by laurence82:are they good in bed?
how do we know?
then u dont reply lor
let other people reply pls
Originally posted by Honeybunz:
Auntie Honeybunz must the ghost writer lah! She got lots of such experience.
Good to see Vince and Chin Eng still around in this forum. :)
Kids..................