Whenever you want to complain, don't complain and help others so that God can help you.Amen and Amen!
True...don't complain but instead say words which lift up people's spirits for it will be a great blessing if we use our words to bless instead of curse. For words is like a sword, it has the power to hurt as well as the power to strengthen. Hurt in the heart is a thousand times more painful than hurt in the flesh.
Let us give praise to each other & empower our hearts to great achievements in life. Give praise to each other to bring us up onto a new beginning when we feel down & out. For we do not fight against flesh but we fight against principalities & power. So do not hold your grudges against those who have hurt you with their words. It is a matter of different beliefs in life for the right believing leads to right living. Hallehlujah.