Pek Kim

• The return

  26 Nov 07, 00:23

  Can or should Christians give pek kim during your friend's wake?
• Icemoon

  26 Nov 07, 00:25

  Isn't it like red packets, but for the opposite reason?
• Cool-gal

  26 Nov 07, 00:28

  of coz can?
  its the least or the last kind of respect we have for the deceased.
• missqi

  26 Nov 07, 00:29

  why cannot? you go to a funeral, you eat and drink, you pay for what you ate and drank.
• popmynutsy

  26 Nov 07, 00:34

  Originally posted by missqi:

  why cannot? you go to a funeral, you eat and drink, you pay for what you ate and drank.

  this is so wrong idea of giving pek kim. so wrong. this 1 actually also not so sure, but 1 thing is u cant hold joss stick.
• Icemoon

  26 Nov 07, 00:36

  Originally posted by popmynutsy:

  this is so wrong idea of giving pek kim. so wrong. this 1 actually also not so sure, but 1 thing is u cant hold joss stick.

  more like the funeral fees which can be quite an amount.
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  26 Nov 07, 00:41

  u should.
• The return

  26 Nov 07, 01:04

  Originally posted by missqi:

  why cannot? you go to a funeral, you eat and drink, you pay for what you ate and drank.

  Who say go funeral must eat and drink?
• specialOps

  26 Nov 07, 02:40

  u should give...as a token to the family.
  
  Dun adopt the "Christian superstition" syndrome. Some things are very common sense, and God is not offended by such things.
• davidche

  26 Nov 07, 09:55

  Originally posted by specialOps:

  u should give...as a token to the family.
  
  Dun adopt the "Christian superstition" syndrome. Some things are very common sense, and God is not offended by such things.

  whoa whoa speak for God.
  
  Chill
• Creation1656

  26 Nov 07, 11:06

  Originally posted by specialOps:
  
  Dun adopt the "Christian superstition"; syndrome. Some things are very common sense, and God is not offended by such things.

  How did you know that G-d is not offended? Did G-d tell you directly that He is not offended?
• Icemoon

  26 Nov 07, 11:23

  Originally posted by Creation1656:

  How did you know that G-d is not offended? Did G-d tell you directly that He is not offended?

  Aiya .. he already said liao .. common sense.
  
  Common sense that God is not offended.
• Darkness_hacker99

  26 Nov 07, 11:51

  It's called Fu Yi.
• The return

  30 Nov 07, 20:41

  So the conclusion is?
• SingaporeMacross

  1 Dec 07, 00:23

  Do anything you like, just don't burn the joss paper.
• dumbdumb!

  1 Dec 07, 00:26

  yup. the money goes to helping them bear the burden of the cost of the funeral and other expenses.
  
  we cannot hold joss sticks because of the spiritual significance.
• noahnoah

  1 Dec 07, 23:50

  
  what if for ex christian still can
  
  give pek kim bo?