Can someone help me with this ?

• davidche

  9 Aug 06, 21:44

  [b]I think that theres sth beyond understanding. A good eg will be this.
  
  I mean everyone(most ppl) knows that the 3rd Point of view on you doesnt define hu you r ?
  
  Which implies to someone to have a higher self esteem cos wad ppl say about doesnt make up wad you r?
  
  So if someone says u r a big fat pig you can choose not to accept this guys view.
  
  Then this 'view' wont affect you into thinking that your really a big fat person and thus self esteem wont be [b]as low.
  
  Do u understand till now wad im saying?? lol [/b]
  
  So most ppl know this theory althought i love to make it more complicated.[/b]
  Then why do ppl still have this thing called shame. I mean when alot of ppl looks at you but they say nothing youll feel shameful rite? But they dont have any 'views(big fat pig)' as mentioned up. The ppl around you dont speak anything about you but yet you feel ashamed and you start to c whether you forgot to zip your pants and stuff.
  
  So wad is this invisible killer that just by one look it can make a person feel uncomfortable?
  
  mods: feel free to delete this if you dont like it.
• The Elder

  11 Aug 06, 21:41

  Originally posted by davidche:
  I think that theres sth beyond understanding. A good eg will be this.
  
  I mean everyone(most ppl) knows that the 3rd Point of view on you doesnt define hu you r ?
  
  Which implies to someone to have a higher self esteem cos wad ppl say about doesnt make up wad you r?
  
  So if someone says u r a big fat pig you can choose not to accept this guys view.
  
  Then this 'view' wont affect you into thinking that your really a big fat person and thus self esteem wont be [b]as low.
  
  Do u understand till now wad im saying?? lol
  
  So most ppl know this theory althought i love to make it more complicated.
  Then why do ppl still have this thing called shame. I mean when alot of ppl looks at you but they say nothing youll feel shameful rite? But they dont have any 'views(big fat pig)' as mentioned up. The ppl around you dont speak anything about you but yet you feel ashamed and you start to c whether you forgot to zip your pants and stuff.
  
  So wad is this invisible killer that just by one look it can make a person feel uncomfortable?
  
  mods: feel free to delete this if you dont like it.[/b]

  Wow! It's really beyond understanding!
  
  

  I think that theres sth beyond understanding. A good eg will be this.

• davidche

  11 Aug 06, 22:27

  hehe. Feel the deepness of Davidche's wrods!!
  
  xiang4 shan yi yang4 gao
  xiang4 hai3 yi2 yang4 shen
• SingaporeTyrannosaur

  12 Aug 06, 00:44

  Deepness? Or purple prose? I suspect the purpose of words is to communicate, and having failed to use that for that purpose might indicate a certain weakenss or flaw on the part of their user. It might be unfortunate.
  
  Why do people feel shame? There are many reasons for it...
• Icemoon

  12 Aug 06, 01:00

  Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:

  Deepness? Or purple prose? I suspect the purpose of words is to communicate, and having failed to use that for that purpose might indicate a certain weakenss or flaw on the part of their user. It might be unfortunate.

  this is so ..
  
  I won't say it out of respect.
• Raptured

  12 Aug 06, 03:20

  Originally posted by davidche:

  hehe. Feel the deepness of Davidche's wrods!!
  
  xiang4 shan yi yang4 gao
  xiang4 hai3 yi2 yang4 shen

  Tie3 bang4 mo2 chen2 zhen1.
• babyys

  12 Aug 06, 04:42

  this only a shrink can answer! tink even a shrink will be clueless.....
• laurence82

  12 Aug 06, 04:45

  Originally posted by babyys:

  this only a shrink can answer! tink even a shrink will be clueless.....

  How you know?
  
  I think, before a shrink can diagnose this, he has to be able to read what the topicstarter typed.
  
  
• davidche

  12 Aug 06, 13:35

  Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:

  Deepness? Or purple prose? I suspect the purpose of words is to communicate, and having failed to use that for that purpose might indicate a certain weakenss or flaw on the part of their user. It might be unfortunate.
  
  Why do people feel shame? There are many reasons for it...

  i wasnt surprised by your comment. I already said i have a problem with communication, in other words, a use of incorrect words.
  
  basically the bolded word r redundent. did a few changes, hope you guys can understand!
• SingaporeTyrannosaur

  13 Aug 06, 01:54

  I must apologize, I realize my post my ironic... and it could be a certain effect I was aiming for.
  
  But I don't really get what you mean anyway.