I think the father does not have the right to demand, he can only persuade.Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:not directly I suppose... but it does suggest the validity of Grace as a system that has to affect, if not hold some sway over the laws of interpersonal conflict as well.
now the question is can the older brother contuine with his grudge and still be in his father's house?
if it's the older brother's inalienable right to hold to offence and not consider for a bit the prodigal's acceptance by the father... does the father have any right to demand anything of this attitude without affecting the notion of justice?
hmm...
I'm not sure how many Christians actually understand and do that.Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:That part nobody should have a beef with.
The simple truth as I believe is this, that if you mess it up with somebody you ought to make it right with that person, and that atonement can be in many physical ways... but they all only have their validity because of the cross.
It is obvious that a attitude of only praying via proxy is defective, and might make the true notion of grace suspect itself... Jesus might as well have sent up Judas or someone else to die for Him instead if that is the low view we take of grace. Obviously the forgiveness does not come through the personal atoning action, but through the grace bought by the perfect sacrifice, but a person who truly grasps the magititude of this sacrifice would want to reconcile, rather then use it as a proxy to avoid interpersonal repentence.
I suspect grace demands many things of us, but in different ways as we would expect of a legal system. It seems to demand a lot more of the heart as well. We ought to be as sad as at the death of the child everytime it is abused.
If u commit murder, the person=dead right?Originally posted by Icemoon:I'm not sure how many Christians actually understand and do that.
To them, Jesus is everything. Everything stops after reconcilation with God. Hey, where is the human factor?
Catholics are better. The RCs here told me after the confession with the priest, they're supposed to make it right with the injuried party.
I'm not sure true grace is that easy to dispense, and the reason it is abundant seems more to me an effect of omnipotence then it's actual cheapness. In the same way I am not convinced that life is easy to dispense just because it is abundant here.Originally posted by Icemoon:I think the father does not have the right to demand, he can only persuade.
It is easy to dispense grace, but can you guarantee repentance by the prodigal son?
You are engaging in PAP-style rhetoric again.Originally posted by laoda99:If u commit murder, the person=dead right?
Whom u make it right?
BTW, the part in blue are sweeping statements. Think u the same as Heng@, anyhow hamtam.....yi zhu gan da fan yi chuan ren.....
what u say is, when u commit rape, u ask the victim for forgiveness...Originally posted by Icemoon:You are engaging in PAP-style rhetoric again.
Are you saying if I can't make it right, you can? Can God resurrect that person?
Are those sweeping? I let every one of you Christian readers decide.
Originally posted by Icemoon:Hmm... valid.
I'm not sure how many Christians actually understand and do that.
To them, Jesus is everything. Everything stops after reconcilation with God. Hey, where is the human factor?
when you commit murder, you will be sentenced to death.Originally posted by laoda99:what u say is, when u commit rape, u ask the victim for forgiveness...
but when u commit murder, what would u do?
what if our destination is different???Originally posted by Icemoon:when you commit murder, you will be sentenced to death.
maybe you can bug the victim for forgiveness in "another world"?
write a letter of apology?Originally posted by laoda99:what if our destination is different???
fei ge chuan shu....Originally posted by Icemoon:write a letter of apology?
web conference?
skype?
pls lor .. a first world heaven-hell system surely has first world tele-communication system right?Originally posted by laoda99:fei ge chuan shu....
finally u here....how's the teh today?Originally posted by M©+square:
Reconciliation and compensation are obviously impossible for murder. Judaism recognizes 3 greatest cardinal sins, of which murder is one. Vindication requires the murderer's death.Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:I do wonder however... how do you reconcile with a person you murdered?
With his family then... but then it would be for your sins against them, robbing them of a loved one.
What about that interpersonal sin of murder, can it then be forgiven? Perhaps a macabre form of asking the spirits of the dead for forgiveness in our prayers?
Or is proxy valid after all?
somebody already has what?Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:Obviously vindication requires death, a person has to die for that murder. An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a life for a life.
Has somebody already has?
Rapist will not die under Singapore law. They might under Islamic law?Originally posted by laoda99:rape also must die rite?
I went for movie.Originally posted by laoda99:finally u here....how's the teh today?
Done what is required to compensate... and maybe even more.Originally posted by Icemoon:somebody already has what?
then it should be done truly altruistic with no expectation of acknowledgement.Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:Done what is required to compensate... and maybe even more.
Was it ever done with an expectation of acknowledgement on the part of the sacrifice? If that was the case He might be very dissapointed.Originally posted by Icemoon:then it should be done truly altruistic with no expectation of acknowledgement.