wad should i do?
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i feels dat my cellgrp members are irritating...
and i have not been attending church for almost 2 months...
however,i still longs for GOD.and im also having O's....my parents objects me too.i seems to be ignorant of wad happens in church...and i have da eagerness to know.well...my cellgrp members are also ignoring me.they seldom toks to me in msn.i felt hurt when everiones ignoring me.is this callled backslided.i loves God...but hates it when ppl and non christian frens isolate me becos i believes in God...wad should i do?help me. -
longing n believeing in God is one thing.willing to sacrifice for Him is another.since u relli do long for Him, go back to church.have a good talk to your cell group members im sure they are more than willing to help or offer u advices.Os are important however it is written, "seek 1st the kingdon of God and all His Righteousness....."since u made a decision to believe in Christ, den show it. faith requires action. u cant just say i love God i love God yet am not willing to do anything to get closer to him eg, going to church, cell group, bible study, outreach stuff...u get wad i mean? if u have any problem can come n find me, i may have limited wisdom but i will try to help u alright? be strong.
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thanks.the thing is...ive parental objections...and forbids me to go church.didnt it stated in the bible that we should honour our parents?should i defy them then?i used to be on fire for God...serves him in ministries,reaching out...but not now.noe sumthing?eversince i've left...my cgl have changed.i didnt even noe that.and i haven even met da new one before... sum tried to talk to me through msn...i finds them annoying.dunno wad happens to me.i just wans to go church...but not to see them..i remembered da days before i din go church...i tried to isolate from them...Originally posted by bluewinged:longing n believeing in God is one thing.willing to sacrifice for Him is another.since u relli do long for Him, go back to church.have a good talk to your cell group members im sure they are more than willing to help or offer u advices.Os are important however it is written, "seek 1st the kingdon of God and all His Righteousness....."since u made a decision to believe in Christ, den show it. faith requires action. u cant just say i love God i love God yet am not willing to do anything to get closer to him eg, going to church, cell group, bible study, outreach stuff...u get wad i mean? if u have any problem can come n find me, i may have limited wisdom but i will try to help u alright? be strong. -
my parents object too..they believe in taosim. so i can roughly understand how u feel. the important point are u willing to go the extra mile for God? i know this needs alot of courage but start by changing the way u do things.be more helpful n sensible.den slowly when you're parents see the change in u, they will trust u to make your own decision..have a good talk with your parents.one thing u relli have to make sure, dat is dun let your results get affect after u go church, parents normally judge alot of things by results alone..if u wan add me on msn den we talk over it..?Originally posted by desorism:thanks.the thing is...ive parental objections...and forbids me to go church.didnt it stated in the bible that we should honour our parents?should i defy them then?i used to be on fire for God...serves him in ministries,reaching out...but not now.noe sumthing?eversince i've left...my cgl have changed.i didnt even noe that.and i haven even met da new one before... sum tried to talk to me through msn...i finds them annoying.dunno wad happens to me.i just wans to go church...but not to see them..i remembered da days before i din go church...i tried to isolate from them... -
desorism:
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Pray
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First, pray. Then, respect your parents if your parents are strong on their decision. Next, wait. Wait you are older and live on your own to make your own decision. During the growing up period, pray and study God's words. God weigh the heart and will bless you.
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wah .. you are like disliked by christians and non-christians at the same time?Originally posted by desorism:i feels dat my cellgrp members are irritating...l...my cellgrp members are also ignoring me.they seldom toks to me in msn.i felt hurt when everiones ignoring me.is this callled backslided.i loves God...but hates it when ppl and non christian frens isolate me becos i believes in God...wad should i do?help me.
do you tell your cellgrp members your problems? -
What is the cause of your parents' objections? Was it because they think you have been spending too much time in church, and thus your schoolwork is affected? Find out why they object to it.
Perhaps it's about time management. Plan your time for church activities, studies and other stuffs well. Gain your parents' trust that you can manage your time well. Perhaps then, they will not object to you going to church. -
CHC best. If parents dun allow their children go CHC .. they can always stay at home and watch webcast.
