Dealing with people

• laurence82

  17 Sep 05, 02:14

  i always hold this dual concepts on people
  
  first level are harmless people
  
  ever met super talkative, loud mouthed, boastful or whatever is irritating you kinda peeps?
  
  i know among my frens, some seriously dont like people who are weird, or different
  
  for me i dont care, coz they are pretty harmless, its ust their character are like that
  
  second level are those u will fear the most, this is the group i watch out for
  
  for those of u who works, u know what it is, its office politics and such
  
  ever been the end of someone else backstabbing, office grapevine and so on?
  
  yup, people who thru their actions, have the intent to hurt you...
  
  always ask urself this, are the annoying people harmless or not?
  
  
• desorism

  17 Sep 05, 17:43

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  i always hold this dual concepts on people
  
  first level are harmless people
  
  ever met super talkative, loud mouthed, boastful or whatever is irritating you kinda peeps?
  
  i know among my frens, some seriously dont like people who are weird, or different
  
  for me i dont care, coz they are pretty harmless, its ust their character are like that
  
  second level are those u will fear the most, this is the group i watch out for
  
  for those of u who works, u know what it is, its office politics and such
  
  ever been the end of someone else backstabbing, office grapevine and so on?
  
  yup, people who thru their actions, have the intent to hurt you...
  
  always ask urself this, are the annoying people harmless or not?
  
  

  NOTED....nice theory.
• desorism

  17 Sep 05, 17:45

  1st level:harmless.but irritating...
  
  2nd level:quite harmful.unpleasant...
  
  3rd level:harmful.irritating annoying
  
  for me...i'll walk away.no point hurting my ears
• Airbus330Captain

  18 Sep 05, 00:53

  I had one incident.
  
  I have always been nice to people (you can call me thick-skin ) , have never done anything to harm people yet there is someone in my hobby that had been spreading rumours , bad rumours about me like as if he has nothing else better to do. I already knew it long time ago but I ignore it because I know they are not true and also I hope he would stop and grow up but it got worse until one day I had enough , I lashed out at him heavily in a forum and email . I never get so pissed off with anyone else and it was my first time I ever did this online. Well, he apologized to me after that, my anger cooled but I knew the damage is done but I moved on with my life. I hope he doesnt do this to anyone else.
• SingaporeMacross

  18 Sep 05, 21:25

  Whenever you are pissed off, always ask Him for patience. Pray that you will do the right thing.
• laurence82

  24 Sep 05, 01:44

  Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:

  Whenever you are pissed off, always ask Him for patience. Pray that you will do the right thing.

  Let not the sun go down on ur temper?
  
  
• SingaporeMacross

  25 Sep 05, 01:42

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  Let not the sun go down on ur temper?
  
  

  It is not wrong to be angry, no?
• laurence82

  25 Sep 05, 11:37

  Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:

  It is not wrong to be angry, no?

  I mean, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering....
• Icemoon

  25 Sep 05, 11:38

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  I mean, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering....

  This is a Buddhistic perspective right? Haha ..