Life's gonna be extra tough for you, bless you and take care
we all need help
you need a PI?
Protect yourself and your children. Get the evidence of his relationship. You need it in court if you want to fight for alimony. Check with a lawyer on your options.
You need to know that even if you don't do anything, your Husband can still initiate a divorce. In the worst case, the other woman may do things to hurt your kids. In my case, my dad's woman called my house when I was young and told me to get out of the house with my mum. That really hurt me for a very long time.
Are you able to support ur kids? If yes, then you can consider leaving. If no, try go counselling to resolve issue. If that dun work,and he refuses to drop the bitch and stick with you, then gut the bastard for all he is worth. You need the moolah to support your kids. Do not let this go, many women have lost everything cos their stupid hubby shacked up with sum stupid whore. Ultimately at end of day, marriage and kids boil down to $$$.. if he dun got the commitment to stick with you, might be better you leave.
Remember, you have t make him commit on paper o support you and the kids. No need get emotional abt this, this is business. I mean, he got you pregnant n you got two kids. Des he wanna stick this out with you or not? He got to pay the price lor.
Ask him to get a maid for you. Then you can walk out anytime.
As long as you have text conversation or any prove of him cheating you can file for divorce under adultary. With this you can get a lawyer to fight for a good amount of alimony, plus you have kids you can ask for monthly few thousand (hope he is earning well). Then you can relax take money and enjoy your life with your kids.
the initial divorce phase gonna be hard but better to break free and pursue happiness than stay in unhappy marriage.
ya agree with kissbunny... if no evidence ur husband can argue for divorce on other grounds, or maybe not give u any alimony.
So to prevent this from happening, its best to get evidence and professional legal advice. Do update us on the case :)
Have you thought about having an open relationship, where both of you happily date other people while within your marriage?
ask if the woman knows if the man has a wife and child
You just follow you hreat and figure it out.
before you thinking the perious time you'll know all the best.
I am sending you my sympathy.
People who cheat, in my eyes are very low. They lack self control, self respect and respect for others. You are everything and most definitely not that. Your husband is everything I just described, pathetic in my view.
I have never been married yet I know what it is like to be in love with someone and they disrespect you and make you feel very small. However, your happiness is more important. You deserve a man that is loyal and honest and so do your children. They deserve a father that sticks to his vows he has for his wife. Your cheating husband is not a good role model for your children. Whilst they are innocent, do what you think is best.
Please consult with a councellor and laywer.
i heard of this story...a man always fight with his wife after marriage, seldom have sex and the man also got find girls outside, after many years, the 2 manage to have a baby, with the baby is a commitment, fight and quarrel again, now they talk only when they there is a need, do you think they should save their marriage?
so many of unhappy marriages outside...
Divorce and leave then.....
How did your husband cheated on you? maybe your definition of cheating is different from his, thats why he doesn't feel like what he has done is considered cheating, thus showing no remorse.
learn to live with it.... or move on.
It's easy to give a comment cos at the end the person facing it isn't yourself. I think got to find the root of the issue den get a really closed Friend to talk to but decisions have to be of your own. Don't hang on to a marriage like myself.
How's things getting on so far?
time to move on
divorce would be good
u have to leave him.
What an irresponsible fella he is. I am no saint but would not let my family know if I am fooling around outside.
Anyways, here are my thoughts. If you (wife) are also a wage earner in this home it is better ....
1. Hire PI to get evidence of the fella's adventures. Keep these evidence to produce in court ... don't let him know you got them.
2. If he doesn't stop his sexcapades, you and children will pay if other party sue him.
3. Get as much as you can from him and leave him.
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