He don't feel he doing wrong! He betray my trust and he cheat.
I don't know should u salvage my marriage or just move on.
My girls 1 yr old and 5 yr old .
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I seek help there .. What they said is to salvage need two party to willing to make changes. But he love that girl so much he willing to give up the family for her..
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I feel for you.
Whatever decision you make, it will not be easy.
It's not easy to forgive and continue.. neither is it easy to give up & walk away from what you believed in. No one should judge your decision.
Think about the long term, that's doing most justice to yourself & kids.
What would you do that is the most sensible for a better life? You would know if the marriage can be worked out or not.
Just be honest with yourself and you will know the answer.
then i guess u shd move on
Hard to let it go and hard to hang on.. Mental torturing!!!
*feeds pao pao strawberry fei zhao*
*rolls pao pao around*
If he truely wants to leave, let him... Even if he stayed, everyone will not be happy anyway...
Just do what u can at the moment... I believe if divorce, can get alimoney (spelling?) to help u take care of ur babies...
But I must stress, divorce is the last resort. I've seen cases that though relationship doesnt work out, couple still stayed on for the children sake...
He stay and he go out find other girl .. Which wife can tahan. Long term is like committing suicide ( killing yourself mental)
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åˆ†æˆ¿ç�¡ treat him like he is not there, until he hands over the house
he can go find other woman w/o the house
now is to get as much from him as possible
for the children sake
Ya if I leave with kids .. Best time he bring that girl back then I am got kick out by myself.. Surrender the house to him and his lover for nothing.
in cases like these, the children are the most innocent
u got the idea very good
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dun sad anymore
get all your strength together and think how to fend for yourself and children and get the most out of him
Come come help me to think what can I get out of him !!!
get a lawyer
if u got proof or got hire PI to get proof, then I think if divorce liao u can get the simi alimoney, something like a monthly allowance of some sort from him.
I think is best u try to settle this with him without letting your daughters know or here not good for their emotional health esp your 5 year old if she understands what ure saying
Do you have the financial means to support your daughters, if you divorce?
You'll figure it out!
I recently caught my gf cheating on me with her boss and they have no remorse and say is normal. Wonder what is wrong with this ppl. And her boss is married too
tts y he is the boss
hope he signed a prenup
Walk out with your head held high.