hi! I am in sec 1 and i joined choir. I thought i would enjoy it but that was not my expectation. I started to feel afraid to go choir for practice or what. I have a lot of good friends in choir but the thing is, i don't like the conductor. I am afraid of him and i don't like him. he is very fierce! Likes to scream and shout, give suspense, putting me into pressure, scold every session, give that scary look! Everything want to be perfect! When i think of choir, i felt anxiety and not willing to go and see my conductor face. Im stress,thinking of my studies and my no longer desire CCA. What should i do. I have one more CCA that i also interested, Drama! I love to act and i am talented in it. But if i quit my CCA, my cca points will drop! And btw the Choir points is easy to get and also choir is a gold distinction in my school. I just want to be happy and relaxed.. What do you think?should i quit my cca? Pls advice me..
First of all, grow up.
ok la. ... Sorry. I know. You are probably only 13 years old this year. ..
ok la. I tell you what. You go ask the teacher in charge of Choir CCA. tell him or her your concerns.
eh. seriously. now july already leh. sec 1 cca start when? latest in march/april, right? why until now then have the regret of joining choir?
are there other reasons? (eg. have you been skipping cca?)
anyway, just want to say,
everything happens for a reason.
is it XMSS choir?
I suggest that you speak to your CCA teacher and probably he or she would be able to give feedback to the instructor. You can request for your CCA teacher to keep your comment anonymous if you are not comfortable with revealing your name.
Thks for the advice :) but i think i should quit, bcoz i don't want to be so tensed in choir, is not fun at all, after a few months in choir, seeing people go screamed at, pressuring me and my senior, seeing my conductor command and screamed to my senior to get out from his class just becoz of not nodding... I really do not want to end up like that, i just want a relax cca, this year is my only chance to quit. Well my friends the seniors are all happy even though they got scolded, i never even smile went im in choir...