How to forget a crush that you like but never like u back?
I mean if she does not like you and i know it's time to move on but you keep remembering/thinking about her. Honestly, I dont want to see a counsellor for this, any tips for me to forget her faster. Gals/Guys are welcome to share.
think this is quite dependent on the individual.
for me, i will turn my focus on other things that requires more attention, and try to do more voluntary works. it helps when i know, i am using the time spent thinking on someone else on something so much more worth it.
when the new one comes along, u will forget the old one
Impossible to forget the person. When you let go you will no longer have that BGR love or liking for that person.
It is so scary to fall in love with someone,really cannot forget thinking about her, trying all sort of distraction but everytime there will be something to remind of her even some tiny things. I always doubted there are love that would cause someone to the extent of hurting themselves, now i feel it and is really very hurting and damaging to someone. probably not all ppl are weak and unable to move on maybe i can't let go fast as i am someone who does not fall in love easily.Is totally different from the puppy love kind of relationship i had in secondary sch.
Just tell yourself this love is only a part of your life not everything la. Na de qi, fan de xia.
Thank you everyone for the great & honest advice! I admit I am a love noob haha, will stay positive and strong. Hope those feeling like us rite now could let go and move forward.
U can comfort urself knowing tat u hv loved but lost cos in the end loving someone is being happy for tat person even if his or her choice is not u.
I've been there n I noe how u feel.
U will be fine.
The lyrics very meaningful;
Already taking, the nick inspiration came from it. I am not advertising for panadol as the cure for rejection though :X
Find a better gal.
Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
Find a better gal.
Thanks that's the way to go i guess
Get another crush! The oreo ones from sweet talk only $1.50 ^^ They're very sweet too.
Be a better man.
Keep yourself busy. Focus on your job or education. If that doesn't work, focus on other girls.
are you a guy? you need to hang out with your NS bring, they will bring you to your fav playground to forget her haha
I know I am stupid
Get busy. Make distance. Hang out with friends. Go outside more often. Participate in more activities. Go volunteer. Get a job. Anything really to meet new people.
I mean it's just a crush, you say... Not love, right?? hahah Just making sure. Because I would totally advise you to make a different approach on that one. Good luck!
get a new crush?? :)
get invovled in something else
Thanks for everyone's advice.. An update, recently suspecting a girl having a crush on me she asking if I am free sumore on a weekend morning ard 7 a.m but again she is not the kind I like, to be honest she is nice looking & bubbly kind.. Now I understand why my crush dun like me is the same as why I don like this girl... Haiz no feel
Having some backups help during the 'dry' periods. Gals do it all the time.