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hey boys and girls,
smthing which i have been curious for a long time, which will u prefer?
a experienced partner which will make u feel good or a noob which u have to 'teach' to do certain things?
in all my previous decent r/s seems that the men doesn't like to lick at all or have little experience.. however my flings are all experienced and i enjoyed every moment of it.
seems like experienced guys are not suitable for a stable r/s (as they are always looking for flings eh?)
guys point of views please, vice versa for girls, girls who are experienced are always on a look out for thrilling sessions (not a good gf eh?)
=)
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Relationships and flings, people must know how to differentiate it.
Flings: You look for experience
Relationship: Love
When you are in a relationship, who cares whether you teach him or she teaches you. Your true love for each other will progress as your love making improves.
People are always looking for love, even so, they cant stand the temptation of flings heh?
It's your choice to be faithful and same goes with your partner.
Sings*
Come up to meet you, tell you I'm sorry
You don't know how lovely you are
I had to find you, tell you I need you
Tell you I set you apart.
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Originally posted by pussy cat:
experienced but doing things behind ur back cos ur not up to his/her standard? hmmmm
well well face the reality.. there's always 'sideline' in every main job.. but don't get caught by ur 'main employer' !! lolx..
If he's not up to your standard .... there's always vibrators.
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I used to think experienced guys would make better lovers in a relationship. However, looking back and seeing the relationships breaking up around me due to infidelity, I finally realized something. This "liberal" society has been focusing so much on sexual freedom that it neglects to address the values of promise and commitment. Instant gratification, immediate pleasure, else it's on to the next lover! Many people dun realize however pleasurable the feelings an exp lover can give u, it is only temporary. If you're in a long-term relationship, other factors like handling the bills, withstanding each other's quirky habits, pressure from family, work, household matters will set in.
As everyone knows, the mind is the greatest and most influential organ in love-making. When pressure from all directions set in, regardless of how skilled a lover is, without building a strong foundation of understanding, sex will still not be pleasurable because it's all in the mind. By then, you would connect the notion of stress with the image of your partner, which is why some husbands can have the most good-looking wives at home yet still go out to fool around.
Also, the more sexual partners you have, the more dissatisfied you get with your current partner. Therefore, instead of focusing on how to bring your sexual intimacy to the next level, your mind would be fantasizing abt how great your other lovers are.
By plunging into an immediate sexual relationship, the sexual chemistry blinds us to partners which would have turn out to be unsuitable for us had we been able to look at him/her in a rational state of mind. We could have avoided all that heartbreak and "complications" but because by then we are too emotionally invested, we are too heart-pained to realize anything else.
Hence my preference would be, it doesn't matter if my partner is experienced or non-experienced. The most important thing would be to focus in the now with my partner. We need to build more trust and understanding before we embark on physical intimacy. Else sex would gradually erode into a non-special event which something such a vibrator can satisfy and as mundane as getting up for work, fu(k and roll off.
Edited by deluded 03 Oct `08, 3:15PM
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Originally posted by Evangel:
Relationships and flings, people must know how to differentiate it.
Flings: You look for experience
Relationship: Love
When you are in a relationship, who cares whether you teach him or she teaches you. Your true love for each other will progress as your love making improves.
People are always looking for love, even so, they cant stand the temptation of flings heh?
It's your choice to be faithful and same goes with your partner.
Sings*
Come up to meet you, tell you I'm sorry
You don't know how lovely you are
I had to find you, tell you I need you
Tell you I set you apart.
Flings: You look for temporary fun & experience
Relationship: Love, fun & experience, Bonus: learn added values from each other such as respect, someone to accompany you till old, someone you can depend on, will comfort you in your down times, will care for you.
Now tell me, which is better?
The answer is clear right?
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Originally posted by pussy cat:
hey boys and girls,
smthing which i have been curious for a long time, which will u prefer?
a experienced partner which will make u feel good or a noob which u have to 'teach' to do certain things?
in all my previous decent r/s seems that the men doesn't like to lick at all or have little experience.. however my flings are all experienced and i enjoyed every moment of it.
seems like experienced guys are not suitable for a stable r/s (as they are always looking for flings eh?)
guys point of views please, vice versa for girls, girls who are experienced are always on a look out for thrilling sessions (not a good gf eh?)
=)
for my point of view
no matter noob or experience she is, as long as she is willing to do things for me and stay faithful, i will give up everything just for her, i am just waiting for the right gal or lady
there will times pple will think or have enough fun n want to settle down 1
so wait till the time comes
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..i’m a little submissive lady lol
cai tou?